Love + Sex

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  Posted by Sara Wed Apr 23, 2008 11:32am PDT

  All you need to d is look inside you and find out what has made you feel so unsexy, and believe me you are not the first person to feel this way. I would try some changes; new and fun food, date nights, a short trip out of town or even try to stay at a hotel for a night or two. A few small changes and a good man was all I needed.

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  Posted by Beth Wed Apr 23, 2008 12:29pm PDT

  Pampering myself makes me feel sexy, but really sexy is all in the mind. Sometimes you just have to tell yourself to knock off the crappiness, and say you are fabulous! There are some clothes that makes me feel sexy, until I look in a mirror haha. Seriously though, I prefer black lingerie when I want to help feel uber sexy.

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  Posted by Oceanblue Wed Apr 23, 2008 2:55pm PDT

  I think your problem is those sores. Once you get rid of those devils, get your hair done, your nails done if you like that stuff and buy yourself and outfit that makes you feel over the top, but dont stop there, go do something out of character....go out somewhere you dont go, have a picnic with your man with nothing but finger food! Do something outrageous and fun so you can break the 'attitude' you have infected yourself with. Find a way to change your mood!!!!

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  Posted by bowtiegirl09 Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:17pm PDT

  I feel sexy when I am at home on the weekends, no makeup, hair in a ponytail, lounging around in some old clothes, and my husband walks up behind me and tells me how sexy I am...then I know that he is still in love with me and thinks I am beautiful!

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  Posted by magali_sauel Wed Apr 23, 2008 6:56pm PDT

  Me my luck is that I get tooken advantage of but then I really should'nt say nothing because, one I"m fat and I don't have the money to do my nails or toes or hair I don't have pretty things but for me what counts is that my grown children love me and I have a roof over my head plus I have a Beautiful Heart I help anybody with what ever I have and that is what I can't understand why I get treated like DOODOO sorry for the esprecion, That's why I have no man now because they are all alike.!!!!!

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  Posted by hollywood_420_2008 Thu Apr 24, 2008 1:44am PDT

  i feel sexxiest in nothing at all but smooth silky lotion after a nice hot bubble bath and a naughty outfit....... damn my boyfriends got it good huh?.. but thats the truth thats when i feel sexiest.

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  Posted by missy Thu Apr 24, 2008 4:09am PDT

  What makes me feel sexy?

  Many, many things. Most of them involve my partner. In reading your words, I can tell yu makes me feel sexy.

  I do feel sexy in my forty-seven year old, scarred and well worn skin. My belly is round and my backside is even rounder. But that is the physical sexy. And sexy begins for me with my emotions and sharing them.

  Good or bad, my partner and I communicate our feelings. Good, bad or indiferent, I know how he feels and I know how he feels. We want each other physically. That is very sexy to me.

  I trust him with my feelings. We've never made love more than on the two unfortunate circumstamces. The first, we had to live in a Mazda B2000 pick-up truck. That is not fun. Having no money and begging for showers and not having any posessions well..........suck.

  There he was, planning and plotting our escape from homelessness. I wasn't very pretty. My hair got greasy, and I got an ugly rash from going to the bathroom outdoors. But judt holding him at night (how elase can two people sleep in a small pick-up?) Holding him, feeling his warmth made me feel very sexy. I wanted to meld into him.

  I don't alwats feel sexy, but to me enjoying a physical relationship with your partner involves trust and respect more than it depends on love. Making love means "making love". A little different than screwing someone. Being that close to someone fosters love.

  That said, if I have a menopause induced moment. DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT BUDDDY!

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  Posted by cj Mon May 5, 2008 4:21pm PDT

  For the cold sores, try taking 2000 mg of L-Lysine a day. It is an essential amino acid that the body does not make. I have not found any studies showing this works, but it has helped me. There is also web chatter about people with chronic fatigue syndrome finding some energy after taking larger amounts of L-Lysine. I hope it helps you feel better.

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  Posted by Alex's Blog Tue May 6, 2008 9:30pm PDT

  I feel sexy 365; sexy to me is not just a word I through around I try and live it.

  1. I try and look my best at all times(it makes me feel good)

  2. wear nice underwear everyday even during the red wave.

  3. I never bad mouth my body in public or with my man.

  4. I only sleep in nice PJ's or gowns (even when I'm sleeping alone

  5. I believe lingerie is a trite for you as well as your man ( it makes me feel extra Sexy).

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  Posted by Aisha K Fri May 9, 2008 6:54am PDT

  I feel sexy all the time. I love my body (flaws & all) and that makes me sexy. Being sexy isn't about how you look, it's about how you feel. Loving yourself is sexy!!!

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