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  Posted by Joboo027 Sun Feb 15, 2009 9:18pm PST

  Jamie, YOU ARE ONLY 14! You should not be thinking this way. You are just beginning to scratch the surface of dating/lust/love, finding out who you are and what you will want out of a relationship. You should not be commiting to one person at this stage of your life. there are a great many things to learn and explore in this world, not just boys...live a little, the time for a commited relationship will happen when it is supposed to happen, and when you least expect it to happen. enjoy this time period, being a teen is when things begin to open up for you and you do not want to miss these things because you are chasing after a bf. there will be plenty of time for you to have bf's and determine who is the right one for you to have a commited relationship with. good luck. David

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  Posted by JamieB Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:44am PST

  haha thanks David. I know i shouldn't but sometimes you just

  want to. Need any advice? or anything else you want to talk about?

  XOXO--

  Jamiee

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  Posted by sweet_kisses Wed Mar 4, 2009 5:22pm PST

  your really young and have alot to explore dont be afiard to try something new...you might just find something better..

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  Posted by Kari Wed Mar 4, 2009 9:40pm PST

  Hello Jamie,

  I was very young when I married "My soulmate"... He was perfect while we dated, but as soon as we were wed I found he had been cheating the whole time. The marriage came to a screeching hault when he beat me in front of our two very young children. There were no warning signs... He wasn't controlling, he seemed devoted to me. I love my kids dearly, but if given the chance to do everything all over again, I would have waited to have them until I had fully enjoyed My youth first. I am still pretty young, but I have lost out on the fun side of being a young adult because my children come first. Please understand, you will hear "You are too young, enjoy your youth"... you will likely blow it off because you will think "These people clearly do not realize how mature I am"... But the fact of the matter is, you ARE too young to know what you want because you are too young to really know yourself. Nothing personal, just medical fact. The human brain is not completely developed in the areas that it needs to be for romantic or sexual ideals to be accurate before one hits their 20s. Please read this pdf, http://www.abanet.org/crimjust/juvjus/Adolescence.pdf ... it starts out on a different subject, but if you read the whole thing you will see that it is nothing personal. To you, right now you know in your gut that you're mature enough, but you aren't any more than I was at your age, I promise. Take care and I hope you take advice from any adult who cares enough to give it to you.

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  Posted by pwsgirl Sun Mar 8, 2009 2:26pm PDT

  Sorry, honey, but you do NOT understand what love is all about, not true, committed love. You are way too young, and although I'm sure you don't agree with me, it's true. You need to be a kid (and that's what you are, sweetheart, a kid--a young lady) before you think about getting serious with anyone. Your time will come, but don't be afraid to wait for it. Good luck to you.

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  Posted by Brittany Sat Mar 21, 2009 2:50am PDT

  you are 14! what the hell do you think you know seriously!

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