Carrie - Before He Cheats by Hmr_withlovesh.
After reading about the 15th story on cheaters I can't help but shake my head at how silly they are. I understand that when someone cheats you are compelled to find a reason or answers to your questions. I’ve been there done that and its heart wrenching. However, it is how I have come to the conclusion that sometimes in life there aren’t always answers, or we are just never going to get them.
Some of the reasons given that people cheat may be applicable to a few, but mostly they are not going to fit the bill. I truly believe that most people do not really need, nor do they have, a reason for why they cheat. It is not always so complicated as we try to make it out to be.
Once a cheater always a cheater is a an old adage that rings true. I believe for the most part people who cheat are repeat offenders and they do not have any complex reasons why. They just do it for the hell of it, kind of like when you’re in line at the grocery store and throw a pack of gum on the conveyor belt.You don’t have any complex reasoning for doing so, you just felt like it at the time and it was right there. It was an impulse buy. To cheaters it's just an impulse buy and that’s it. There are no” Daddy issues”, No ” I felt lonely”, No “I wasn’t getting enough attention”, No ” I was really drunk” because the ” reasons” for cheating really are just excuses. Bad excuses.
Do you agree?
