OKAY GUYS, MY BOYFRIEND JUST DUMPED ME, BUT I STILL LOVE HIM!

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  Posted by Kendra Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:33pm PDT

  You'll get another chance at love, there's a lot of men out there. Maybe in your mind he was "perfect" , but sorry , no one is. (no offense, but it's true) Pick yourself up and move on. I wish you good luck!

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  Posted by joe Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:40pm PDT

  Hi there I would say leave him be just for a little bit,couple weeks but still be in his eyes, like on the sideline. Because if you love him, don't give him up. But there was something that got him mad, find what it was and work on fixing it. I am a very passion man and I love it when a woman because passion, so maybe try small passion things, to get him to look at you again. but don't move in to fast he is still mad. best of luck

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  Posted by william Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:40pm PDT

  you cant force someone to feel the way that you do thats why he left you so you have to go on

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  Posted by Kate Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:41pm PDT

  thanks! idk though, i dont think ill be dating again for a while!

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  Posted by Lora Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:35pm PDT

  Here are something you should think about:

  why did he dump you? Is it your fault or is there a misunderstanding? If so, you may still have a chance to have him back. My boyfriend dumped me once because he caught me lying to him. Reasonable enough? YES. He dumped me right there and then because he was so mad and partly he didn't understand the whole thing and the reason why I lied to him. I begged him to give me another chance, he gave me a final answer. He said NO. I didn't know what to do. Though I was willing to accept the consequence of my action, I didn't give up. I kept sending him messages saying how sorry I was. He still talked to me and yes he blamed for everything. I accepted everything and I said I was sorry.So a week later he wanted me back. He told me, his reaction was normal and he needed cool down. So we have each other back now and we love each other more and I've learned from my mistakes.

  The other thing is, is his reason of dumping you a third party? If so, then you I guess you are screwed. Sorry to tell you that. You will never have him back if his reason is another woman. At this point, you need to let him go and completely forget about him because you will just be wasting your time trying to get him back. Things like these, you no longer have control of, so let it go.

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  Posted by Khalil Momand Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:36pm PDT

  Hi Kate, if you really want him back again then find the reason why he left’s you? If you couldn’t then I don’t think you might be able to have him back since there should be good understanding of each other in such thick relationships.

  You have written that you gonna see him a lot soon, but I would suggest try not seeing him for a while as you know "If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you its meant to be", that’s true, if he love you and have little feelings about you then he might be back, but if he don’t then I would suggest not to destroy your precious and beautiful life.

  I know it is difficult to leave someone you love from 14 months, but how about your future, don’t you think that you could be in stress… tension… So, think about…

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  Posted by Darel Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:50pm PDT

  Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. I dated for 2 years and gave her everything she wanted and then She started saying that she wasn't being fair to me and I should date other women. I couldn't understand why she would make a statement like that. She had said she loved me and I loved her very much. The real suprise was when I caught her with another man. Never thought she would have done that. I feel I have been taken to the cleaners and have decided to move on... I am going to find my new love as soon as possible. No matter what you do, you cannot make someone love you...

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  Posted by Minh Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:51pm PDT

  Khalil is smart and if u keep persue without finding reason could hurt u more

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  Posted by lady B Sat Aug 15, 2009 9:59pm PDT

  poor kate, move on...a chased man doesn't want to be caught!! let him go and maybe he'll come back, if not, you're better off.

  you know in your heart if there's a third person in the mix, so ask yourself that and never live in denial.

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  Posted by shY Sun Aug 16, 2009 12:07am PDT

  Dear Friend, No one is perfect in this word. All things are happening for good. don’t worry.

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