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Saturday, November 28, 2009

Pleasure of Simple Joy?

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Seems like a simple enough question?  But can you answer it yourself?  Have you noticed within the last year that all you have been doing is for everyone else and you?  You maybe be the "Yes," person, but has it made you feel incomplete...almost like you don't know yourself.  And then you notice that you start to "kind" of  "resent" things, people and then "BAM," you are unhappy.

I ve noticed within the last year that I have bombarded myself with things that make me unhappy.  I thought for a long time I was over the "resentment" period in my life of a bad "ex-boyfriend experience," just to feel like I hate the guy more.  A majority of how I feel about him is down to the feeling that I have been "wrongly" used as a person and that I deserve justice. 

I have feelings of revenge and "eye for an eye," run through the course of my veins.  Sounds pretty dreary, huh?  But to ask all the readers, how do you know you have forgiven someone?  How do you let go of that resentment and just "move on?"  Most of all, how do you bring joy back in your life and give that joy to others without costing yours?

Seems simple enough, but how?

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  • Super Abuelita's Avatar
    Posted by Super Abuelita Thu Sep 24, 2009 10:24am PDT

    I do what is best for "me" emotionally, and physically for me first.

    I already went through being the "yes" person.

    I learned to say "no" I cant do it all.

    Once I accepted that I was a human, not Wonder Woman, it was easy to teach my children to become independent.

    It is not selfish to think of your own sanity. No matter what anybody thinks.

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