Poll: How do you collect items left at your ex's house after a breakup?

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  Posted by natalie Mon Jul 27, 2009 12:12pm PDT

  Hell if u are still at their place of residence get them right then if not hell try not to leave so many things at someone's place u are not living at.

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  Posted by Doktor Eevol Mon Jul 27, 2009 12:15pm PDT

  Why leave ANYTHING at an ex's house in the first place?

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  Posted by Mustang Mon Jul 27, 2009 12:22pm PDT

  How can anyone have 37 boxes worth of stuff at the boyfriends house? I mean occasionally I would leave my sweater but that's it...

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  Posted by Zhanna Mon Jul 27, 2009 12:28pm PDT

  When my ex left he left behind alot of stuff so I started throwing all the nice things he bought and broke everything. I figured if we were not going to be engaged anymore I might as well get rid of everything that belonged to him in one night. I am so happy I broke off that engagement.

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  Posted by Ahleah G Mon Jul 27, 2009 12:44pm PDT

  Doktor Eevol, if you are seeing someone to the point of sleeping at their place a few nights a week, most likely you have a few things laying around. In Jessica's case, sounds like she was half living there.

  When my ex moved out a few years ago, she seemed to think that because I had a basement and she was now in an apartment I was her storage unit. Eventually I had to pack up her crap and tell her to come get it or it was getting thrown out. (I must say, I should have just trashed it, but I can be too nice sometimes.)

  I would probably go get in myself or arrange a neutral meet up location if it was particularly bad break up.

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  Posted by heath Mon Jul 27, 2009 1:11pm PDT

  Or anyone can be like me! I had an ex that used me for several thousands of dollars and now she won't give the stuff back to me so I hired my lawyer to take her to civil court to get my stuff back!Best part is her birthday is coming up in a few weeks and thats when the papers are getting searved on her! Its one birthday gift she will never forget!

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  Posted by softballsnick Mon Jul 27, 2009 1:17pm PDT

  when my ex and I broke up, we lived together. I didnt want him around alone, so I packed everything up and made arrangements for him to pick up his crap....i also made sure one of my friends were with me at the time in case if anything happened

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  Posted by j2 Mon Jul 27, 2009 1:22pm PDT

  Zhanna & heath: Do you 2 know each other?

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  Posted by None Mon Jul 27, 2009 3:57pm PDT

  That's why I wouldn't let anyone borrow my things, but I guess if you two are living together could get stick, IDK, say please give back my things and I would do the same.

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  Posted by j2 Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:59pm PDT

  I didn't know that someone could spoof your signature on Shine. The 7th post above is mine, but the 8th (SPAM filled trash) is not mine.

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