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  Posted by Ranjani Mon Jun 30, 2008 5:21am PDT

  very ugly to see somebody write on this subject, Mr.Ambalam ur friend on the first place is not a saint for you to blame the girl. this reflects the morality of your friend.

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  Posted by springtime Mon Jun 30, 2008 7:32am PDT

  Are you kidding? This guy is a loser with no morals whatsoever. He deserves no wife. She should have kicked him out long ago and never looked back. She deserves better. There are good men out there. She will find one.

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  Posted by anonymous1 Tue Jul 1, 2008 2:03am PDT

  Well considering that he was determined and faithful from the beginning, I wouldn't be so quick to judge the guy in this case...But yourself in his shoes girls....You found the man of your dreams who is just perfect in every way....And because he was your prince charming, many things about yourself may have changed from their previous ways...but what happens when your prince charming is no more?? When the mutual saying and expressing of love all of a sudden takes a turn because of something you did before you met him?? Would you want to be around constant nagging and false accusations?? I've been a cheated on before and also have ended up a mistress...I'm sure you'll be judging me soon too....But truth of the matter is communication is everything...The fact that I didn't communicate with my partners is what often times lead to arguements, which in turn resulted them looking for comfort somewhere else, thus resulting in him cheating....and then because of my experience of getting cheated on and the importance of communicating with your partner, often times you get pulled into another ordeal you didnt quite think you would find yourself in....hence my becoming the mistress....after almost 3 months of counseling this one particular patient and explaining the risks involved with infidelity so I ended up taking up the title....The way I see it if you give them a reason to look the other way, why start complaining?? Their situation was working fine till the possessive side of the wife came out....Marriage is not about who holds the power or who controls what....Its about becoming one and resolving anything thats thrown your way as ONE!!! Many of you like to receive but never give...and i mean both men and women....I myself am guilty of that....but don't be quick to judge the next person when they were yours to begin with and you didn't know how to appreciate the fact that they were yours....It doesn't feel good to be cheated on and really feels even worse knowing your commiting adultery, but in all reality, if your on the receiving end of cheating, then reflect on what you may have done that had him/her stray....its not the adulters fault that your spouse found in them what they desired to find in you...

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  Posted by Ranjani Tue Jul 1, 2008 3:00am PDT

  anomysit this is too much for a cheat, for u to write a long response...i think u are seeing u in that guy....ha ha ha

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  Posted by Michelle Mon Jul 7, 2008 2:07am PDT

  And you dared to call me foolish? hum...

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