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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Question: How Important is oral sex to you?

I don't think many women will disagree with the idea that foreplay is a must before having sex with a man for the first time. There's nothing more disappointing than having a man just trying to jump on top of you without giving your some mouth love- dry sex is as uncomfortable as a vending machine tampon. Agreed?

Only during quickies should you forego oral sex. Any other time you better expect the man to get on his knees and give you some tongue action. I actually have to come out and admit that oral sex in porn is such a huge turn on. It's so sexy to see a man on his knees eating a woman and watching her get off as he licks her plate clean. It's hot.

I can't imagine anyone not wanting to get on their knees and kiss those lovely body parts. Women love to give oral sex because it's empowering to have a man lose his mind as their mouths have a tight grip around their cocks. I even have a girlfriend that brags about giving the best oral sex around; her face just lights up as she gives explicit details about her fellatios. As one guy friend shared, "If you can give a toe curling ----- you got us by the balls." It's mind blowing to have that sexual power. I love seeing my man toss and turn on the bed as I'm busy wrapping my lips around him. His moans turn me on.

I couldn't enjoy sex with a man that didn't want to get on his knees and give me some back arching licks. I love looking down and seeing my man's head buried inside of me. It really excites me just like it excites a man to see a woman suck his c--- . It's an arousing visual. As one of my girlfriends said, "I love it when men eat my pink taco" and I couldn't agree. Tu quieres Taco Bell? I got a pink taco for you! ;)

Sadly, a few men are either selfish or have no clue on how to truly please a woman because they have no interest to bury their heads between our legs. That to me is a huge turn off and I'm surprised these men are getting sex. These are the type of men you just sit on and ride them until you reach your orgasm and then complain of a tummy ache and excuse yourself to the restroom and stay in there playing with your hair until his erection wears off. Seriously. Even better, just put your clothes back on and just dry hump his greedy self for awhile. He's not worth the sex.

Ladies, how important is oral sex to you?

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  • John's Avatar
    Posted by John Wed Oct 7, 2009 7:54pm PDT

    weell I have been married for ten years and my wife would let me eater for hours and suck and lick her nipples so gently it drives her nuts and the things she can do to me man I cant help but plow my load. And when she gets on top of me it so like haven she is a very good lover but I will say when its over we cant do nothing but go to sleep because we are both so tired and satisfiead.

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  • daveg's Avatar
    Posted by daveg Wed Oct 7, 2009 10:13pm PDT

    As a man, I would assume that woman, would not think that men enjoy kissing, as much as they do. I would not want a relationship where was no affection besides intercourse. It would be like going to a prostitute, with no love whatsoever.

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  • Mauna's Avatar
    Posted by Mauna Thu Oct 8, 2009 7:48am PDT

    Oral sex...it depends if the guy is "good" or "bad" through their demeanor, attitudes, of the relationship they are having with you,etc make all the difference...the last guy I dated I wanted to puke when giving him oral sex because of his type of KING LIKE attitude which made my stomach and head turn upside down about him...I am glad the relationship fizzled out. Males who are extremely "bossy" and portray themselves as OVER POWERED freaks, along with the mentality that women should always be 100% submissive to their 'way'....I know they will never have a Good, healthy, and balanced type of relationship with anyone they seek out to have and do I know they will ruin many good true souled women as well leaving them with horrific memories and a poison to the word of "Sweet".

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  • Stinker bug's Avatar
    Posted by Stinker bug Wed Oct 28, 2009 7:58pm PDT

    I think it is very important, for me it makes me more worked up and more willing to give him better pleaser..and what guy doesnt want that..

    If u guys dont like goin down on a girl..do u think most girls like doin it to u, but we do do it for u to make u happy so why not give a litle once in a while for us ;) who knows u might like the out come.

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  • Stinker bug's Avatar
    Posted by Stinker bug Wed Oct 28, 2009 7:59pm PDT

    oh and for the girls that have the guys that dont know what there doin...be the boss and tell them what to do ;) im sure it will all work out!

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  • Kareem's Avatar
    Posted by Kareem Thu Dec 3, 2009 7:41am PST

    I think that oral sex is very impotnat befor having sex .

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