Okay. So I've been going out with a guy for about three months now and I really like him, I lost my virginity to him too, but I kinda think I'm a b---- to him. Like, I always kinda take out my anger on him sometimes and I don't mean to but then he's always there for me which makes me feel even worse ! And I have a bestfriend named Danny, and We talk all the time because we're really close. He's also my ex, though. But we're COMPLETELY over and JUST friends. But my boyfriend is jealous of Danny and thinks that I trust Danny more then I trust him. And I don't. I don't know what to do, Because everytime me and my boyfriend get into a little argueement..he always brings up Danny. I keep telling him that Danny is just a friend but a while ago I told him that I kinda still had feelings for Danny which I DON'T anymore. But I don't think he believes me. So what should I do ? Because I think he doesn't trust me and I'm mean to him and I know this might end badly or soon and I don't want it to end at all ! And he's going on a cruise and when he gets back, I'm going on vacation with my mother so we'll be apart for a long little while and I don't want him to realize that it's not working because I've never liked someone as much as I like him. I just don't want anything to get in the way of us, whether it's Danny or a vacation. Help me?! How can I save this relationship ?
- Tayler.
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RelationshipWRECKS. I need help dude...
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Posted by Fri Aug 8, 2008 1:30pm PDT
Report AbuseLOL!! I actually had a relationship exactly like yours this past winter. Honestly...I wish that she would have told me exactly how she felt. In your case you should call him or txt...whichever form it is that you guys communicate best *I would call and leave him a voicemail actually* and tell him that you want HIM to come over and see YOU. Then just blah for a moment to break the ice and eventually work up the balls to tell him exactly how you feel about him and the relationship and how you've been treating him. I am about 99% sure that he will take it into account and think very hard before he decides to end things with you. Don't forget to include the part of you admitting that you USED to have feelings for Danny but that you realize that you don't anymore and that you APPRECIATE him for sticking around even though you have been a real...ummm...what's the word...oh yea...a real inconsiderate b---- to him. But then again that is just the way I wish my winter THING would have ended. You know...guys like to hear that they are appreciated and loved every once in a while also. Maybe not as much as girls but every once in a while is nice.
--Kallosue
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Posted by Sat Aug 9, 2008 3:59am PDT
Report Abuseu do have a problem i think u should sit wit him but agree first with him that he should nt interupt u till u done talking , the way u've expressed yrself on the blog tell it to him and tell him u really care that u are trying to be less mean and that u need him to be there and u need him to help you change yr ways towards him ; i bet u it will get better , i'm as mean and wicked with my man as heck cause i know he loves me and can die for me , i've always had a bad caracter since years and never really tried been nice to anyone but my man is more than special to me !!! we are still trying to work out my behaviour , it's gotten better coz he knows how to make me smile when i become a crazy ***** , and he does cause i expressed how i felt and asked for his help in making us better
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