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Monday, November 30, 2009

Screamers, moaners, and hummers

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I just read this little survey about what turns men on in the bedroom, and one item in particular caught my eye. When asked what was a bigger turn-on during sex, women who scream or moan, the screamers were outnumbered by moaners nearly 3 to 1. I guess a little "oooh Baby, oooh Baby" goes a long way in the bedroom.

Another interesting tidbit was that 98% of all men like some talk. One guy says that dirty talk was like feedback. It lets him know that he is hitting the right spot. Also, men say they like to hear humming while getting a hummer. The soft moaning makes them feel like she's enjoying it as much as he is.

Personally, I prefer a combination of moaner and screamer, but right now in my life, I'd settle for a purr in the ear. For me, moaning is like building up to the climax (excuse the pun) of a great song.  Starting out slow, and then building towards a great finish. The screaming, well, that speaks for itself. I love the raw intimacy of that kind of experience.

Any moaner/screamers out there???

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  • another hockey fan's Avatar
    Posted by another hockey fan Tue Mar 24, 2009 5:58am PDT

    I'm a very sexual women so I'm a screamer and I mean the kind where the neighbors might call 911 on me. ;-) I wasn't always like that, only when I got into my 30's and eversince then. I know my husband loves it and I never had any complaints in the past either. I think my screaming is a release for me because I'm not the type of woman to yell or go off on people when they piss me off. I've always enjoyed sex as a stress relief too so I'm sure it stems from there as well.

    My husband and I both enjoy dirty talk and sharing sexual fantasies (usually we write them to one another). He loves hummers, but I think he prefers the slurping, sucking sounds over humming....hmmm, I think I'll ask him! ;-) Thanks for the post!

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  • Ben's Avatar
    Posted by Ben Tue Mar 24, 2009 7:50am PDT

    I like my girlfriend

    ohhh...

    uhmmmmm.....

    yes......

    arhhhhh.......

    but not scream...... zzzzzzzz

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  • Gigi's Avatar
    Posted by Gigi Mon Apr 6, 2009 5:22pm PDT

    I'm a moaner but sometime, when ex-boyfriend would just hit that spot, it would turn into a loud moan (I guess that would be screaming lol)

    Good post =)

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  • mrs.clark's Avatar
    Posted by mrs.clark Fri Jun 26, 2009 10:04pm PDT

    I think screaming is better because it shows them that they're hitting the right spot or that your at least enjoying it

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  • ButterScotch's Avatar
    Posted by ButterScotch Tue Aug 18, 2009 5:07am PDT

    Well I'm a moaner,dirty talker and sometimes a screamer especially when he is hitting it just right... ;)

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  • AmberG's Avatar
    Posted by AmberG Mon Oct 5, 2009 11:46am PDT

    i'm a taurus so and we're a very sexual sign. screaming in bed is inevitable for me i can't help it at all .. i 've never heard complaints tho my guys think its sexy. who would want a pillow princess anyways [ ;

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