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Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Sex Once Every Two Weeks?
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Sex once a week or every two weeks — is this normal? I feel like my
boyfriend has lost interest in me. I've tried to spice it up a
bit, but I don't know what else to do! I talk to him, and all
he says is that I take the fun out by asking and nagging him about
it all the time. So I try not to say anything and then nothing ever
happens, or after a week or so he just wants oral. We have some of
the best sex I've ever had and I'd be fine having sex daily
— I'm so attracted to him! We live together and have for about
a year now. Sometimes I wonder if that takes the spice out of it. I
try to not just be a roommate though and to still be the girlfriend
I was before. He just isn't very affectionate either; maybe
that has something to do with it. I find it difficult to try to
turn on someone who I can't make out with anytime of the day or
touch him without him freaking out. What is his deal?! Do I dare
say anything about him going to the doctor for Viagra? He's
only 26!
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Posted by Amanda Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:11pm PST
If he's not getting it at home, he's getting somewhere else....
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Posted by willeride Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:37pm PST
I can soooooo relate, the bad thing, is I'm married. It is very difficult to try to make someone who isn't interested interested. Let me know if you figure something out, could use any help.
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Posted by Mauna Sat Nov 14, 2009 7:03am PST
I feel sorry for the women who are stuck in a relationship where everything is solely based upon the decisions from the head of a male... and because of how IT is, another reason to my list of why I am single and choose to remain single since 2006. I got tired of them bossing me around, and bullying my soul if I did not do things according to their 'way' just like that of (analogy) Military way of order, rule and living. Talk about removing all the good stuff out of a relationship...males are completely successful at doing that! They themselves as being discovered in truth, a STONE COLD HEARTED STEEL HEADED SOUL....where's the "gentle like a dove concept take place in souls like this?' When most of them since they are HEAD of a variety of things, and they continue to reveal that all they really want to do is GO TO WAR!
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Posted by GET ON MY LEVEL Sat Nov 14, 2009 4:00pm PST
HE'S CHEATING
LIKE WHY BUY THE COW WHEN THE MILK IS FREE.
BUT I GOT SOME SUGGESTIONS:
CHEAT ON HIM (YOU'RE NOT MARRIED)
GO OUT ALL THE TIME
LEAVE HIM
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Posted by liz g Sun Nov 15, 2009 5:32am PST
I'm in the same situation, you need to tell him how you feel. If you don't then it's going to get worse. If he acts lije it's not a big deal and that you are over reacting them leave him.
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Posted by liz g Sun Nov 15, 2009 5:32am PST
I'm in the same situation, you need to tell him how you feel. If you don't then it's going to get worse. If he acts like it's not a big deal and that you are over reacting them leave him.
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Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Sun Nov 15, 2009 8:59pm PST
Wow. You are not in deep enough to be obligated to stay. You aren't married, so just have sex and call it a night. Why is having sex with him so important if you aren't his wife and he has lost interrest anyway. If you need it that bad then fix your situation to where you can get it without more emotional drama. It is what it is and you sound more like a pain freak, but this isn't really your suffering of choice. I suggest you find you a very very nice sized individual and be his friend as well until reality hits you again and again realizing you love it like you hate it, but you know it feels good.
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