Love + Sex
Friday, December 11, 2009
Sex Struggles for a Serious Couple
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My girlfriend and I are starting to get serious. The
only problem is she only likes to have sex in one position, and is
not a fan of oral sex. Any suggestions on how to make her open up
in the bedroom?
SingleEdition.com Sex and
Intimacy Expert Cathy Beaton's Answer:
This situation might really put your communication skills to a test
but it's certainly worth a try. Do you know why your girlfriend
only likes to have sex in one position? Has she had this problem in
prior relationships? There can be many reasons why her preference
is limited, including past trauma, pain, fantasies and
inexperience. Does she enjoy sex in the one position in which she
has it? If so, you might want to find out why. For example, does
she feel more in control, less exposed, have more sensations,
etc.?....continue reading on SingleEdition.com
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Posted by Joboo027 Fri Oct 23, 2009 1:13pm PDT
ask her to tell you what her fantacies are and then try to make them happen.
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Posted by Twanda Fri Oct 23, 2009 6:22pm PDT
I HAVE THREE WORDS FOR YOU.YOU GO GIRL HA-HA-
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Posted by Fashionista Sat Oct 24, 2009 11:12am PDT
Hello Sex Struggle,
It is not uncommon for couples to experience different ideas in the bedroom. The most important thing to do is to sit your partner down and communicate your thoughts and feelings about sex with her. Let her know what you like and don't like, your sexual desires, what turns you on, etc. and then encourage her to do the same. Communication and experimentation is the key to great lovemaking.
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Posted by jeremy Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:46pm PDT
Tell her what turns you on and ask her to try some other things. If she refuses ask why and if she closes off itsTime to re-ante up.
Good Journey
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Posted by Mauna Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:44am PDT
A lot of it not only depends on her own inner Psychology when it comes to the bedroom, but also how he/she may actually truly feel about her partner that leads to 'issues' in the bedroom. Perhaps you are not a turn on for her and if so, your quest is to find out what does turn her on. (as I hear a raven screaming at me at 6:43am PT time LOL!).
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Posted by M Thu Oct 29, 2009 3:56am PDT
That sucks show that its so much fun to do new postions and it feels good. you dont know until you try... goodluck... remember 1 postion is boring explore.....
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Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Thu Oct 29, 2009 4:55am PDT
Sice you have to ask then there is a real good chance you will not be the one to open her up. You'll find a different girl to do the things you need done sexually and she'll find some other guy to do or not do that stuff to sexually.
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