Love + Sex

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Should A 40-something Single Guy Socialize With And Seek His Girl-friend From Among Teenage Girls Or 20-something Single Ladies?

user

  I am a 47-year-old single guy who earns his livelihood by doing small odd jobs like giving tuition to kids.I have never been married.Because of circumstances,the prospectiveness of the best education and careers I deserved and I was capable of got thwarted. I have got love for life very recently and want to live it very passionately like a young guy. I have been very intelligent as a student.Later I got into clinical depression and suffered for about 20 years. I kept myself away from almost all people. I have no family to support me emotionally or for companionship now. I’m ambitious and want to better my career prospects. I feel badly lonely at times. I am handsome, slim and tall. Teenage girls and single young ladies get attracted to me. But single ladies in my age group are far and few between  and if any I come across do not show any interest towards me as they are well placed career-wise etc. in comparison to me. I  posted an ad on a Matrimonial site about a year ago but no one seems to be bothered about me. I have bruised the hearts of so many teenage girls and single young ladies as I have spurned their advances because of my being in a dilemma. I do not know what I should do.Should I socialize with and seek my girl friend from among young ladies  or wait (indefinitely) for the right one from in my age group ? Is it advisable to date a young lady about 25 years junior ? Advise.

Syndication:

From the Community…

Comments 1-5 of 5
  • cappy's Avatar
    Posted by cappy Sun Oct 26, 2008 9:41am PDT

    No. It's sometimes called "Mid-Life Crisis"!! I think you should stick to women around your own age-I would think you'd have more to talk about with women your own age than 20 year olds.

    Report Abuse
  • Samantha's Avatar
    Posted by Samantha Thu Nov 6, 2008 3:14pm PST

    Look.I think you should follow your heart!!If u wish to seek someone from a younger age group that's you!Age is nothing but a number it does not define how u can feel for a person.Or how you can feel for a person.Personally my boyfriend is about 8 years older than me.It does not have any affect on our relationship we are happier than ever.Just do what you think is right.Start going out and meeting people even if they are younger than you.If u click with someone then go ahead and go forward with it.I wish the best of luck to you!If u need anymore advise just email me at scolie301@yahoo.com

    Report Abuse
  • Jiansheng's Avatar
    Posted by Jiansheng Sat Dec 27, 2008 8:31am PST

    AP Beijing on December 9, in the NBA regular season, the Houston Rockets on the road to Memphis Grizzlies lost 97-109.

    Rockets were beginning to play an opponent 10-0, the most the first half behind 22 points, coach Rick - Adelman said: "They

    have a whole night of the performance of very aggressive, we had to buy cheap rnescape

    gold narrow the points difference to the 2 hours, but they are crazy rebound, snatching offensive rebounds, and the

    impact of the basket, they overwhelmed us. They play a more powerful, faster and better shooting. We have long said that the

    team struggled in the , The record is very bad, but they are an NBA team, they need to win, they have the talent, and

    together they prove that their own. " Rockets Tracy McGrady will be three old Barry and Artest did not play games. Rockets to

    an early own a pit dug, the former 6th in the shot is not all. The Grizzlies hit the first section rate was as high as 61%,

    5th one-third of all the hand hit the ball. Rockets team is not completely, the first section of the race there as much as 8

    errors (mistakes Grizzlies scored only 6 times). Shane Battier said: "We played very bad in the first section, behind too

    much, so difficult to reverse. We played a wave of high tide, but not enough to beat them in their. Tonight, we do not

    deserve to win . " Mark - the former defense around Gasol Yao Ming, Yao Ming is runescape money so suited, Yao Ming scored 4 for 8 in 14 minutes, but there are 4 errors in 31 minutes

    to grab a giant only 4 rebounds.In the alliance, we have to play this way The win is not. " And play as Golden State Warriors

    had the game on 18 minutes, plus a truce Artest, Vaughan - Wofu Rockets won the first opportunity for the first time in his

    runescape accounts career.Coincidentally, the same day, Yi Jianlian is also

    the outbreak. Today more than 112 home in the Nets beat the Clippers in 95 games this season, won the highest individual

    points, 27 points, grabbed 6 rebounds. After the game, a great feeling of Yi Jianlian to update the blog, said the Nets than

    the Bucks in a bit happier. "Now think about runescape gold playing in the Nets really

    feel more comfortable than last season, and we are playing as a whole, the back line is also better. Harris and Carter are

    very good scorer, but they are willing to pass. How should I say? Think of the new season of the more promising it, record

    it, the opportunities it, in any case that deal was quite good here. "LAS killed in the encounter Bucks do not pass Reed, the

    exercise has been very limited. Yi Jianlian is the main means of attack in long-distance shot, he's yesterday's 3 for 5 3-

    pointers, in 15 voted for 9. LAS admit that he can perform runescape items well because

    the team is playing in the wind the ball. Yi Jianlian is the main game against the best defender Marcus Camby, his hands

    several times the impact of Camby's inside, tasted the sweetness of that, the last paragraph of Section II, he raised his

    head Marcus Camby in Yueqi Slam, Camby was a foul. The second half, scoring on a two-Yi Jianlian to try more attacks in the

    inside, he has successfully shot three times, but also to a Davis lay down to the closure rebounds in the last. After Carter

    praised Yi Jianlian to runescape items any person in the head completion of the shooting,

    Yi Jianlian, however the game is not the most impressive is the 27-point season-high, but the courage to try to make an issue

    inside, 8 free-throw opportunities is the most Good note. buy cheap

    runescape gold

    Report Abuse
  • Phoenix08's Avatar
    Posted by Phoenix08 Mon Feb 16, 2009 7:17pm PST

    If you feel you aren't compatible with women your own age, then go for what you want. If younger women are interested then why not. You will both grow up together.

    Report Abuse
  • kel*kel's Avatar
    Posted by kel*kel Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:25pm PST

    no why ruin a young girls life I mean get real u dont have many years left to offer her a full life she will eventually realize that

    Report Abuse
Comments 1-5 of 5

leave your comment

You must sign in to post a comment

Sign In for personalized information

New User? Sign Up

Love Byte

Help! My close friend keeps flirting with my spouse!