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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

should I Cheat

ok here is the problem this past friday i went out with my girlfriends to the bar for our friends  bachlerette party. Well three days later my so called boyfriend told me he  took another girl to the movies the night i was at the bar .He says that they are just friends and that nothing happened and i want to belive him but its hard I did go stay the night with him that night. well anyways my question is should i cheat on him even if im not really sure he cheated on me. There is a guy i have been talking to since i was twelve and he has come back into my life. So my qustion is should i cheat i need advice.
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  • Always and Forever's Avatar
    Posted by Always and Forever Wed Apr 15, 2009 5:45pm PDT

    well i say itz up to you but i suggest you do eventually hes going 2 cheat on you with that same friend he takes to the movie even though ur not sure i suggest you do itz a 50/50 chance if he is and if he isnt plus wat ever you do just keep it in the down low so just in case you find out hes cheating on you at least you wont be that hurt since you did the same

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  • RyneishaB_05's Avatar
    Posted by RyneishaB_05 Wed Apr 15, 2009 5:47pm PDT

    I dont believe that you should cheat two wrongs dont make a right so you have to be the bigger person and either decide to take a break or trust that he didnt do anything with his "friend" (thats really rude of him to take another girl out to the movies even if he didnt do anything) i think that was totally direspectful but if you forgave him then you just need to move on...if your feeling like you want to cheat then you dont need to be in a relationship!!!

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  • casy's Avatar
    Posted by casy Wed Apr 15, 2009 6:07pm PDT

    I TOTALLY AGREE WITH RYNEISHA............DO NOT CHEAT.........MOVE ON........LOL......CASY

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  • Amy's Avatar
    Posted by Amy Wed Apr 15, 2009 6:09pm PDT

    I think you shouldn't cheat and it wont solve anything. You really shouldn't cheat cause you'd only be hurting yourself. Whether or not your so called boyfriend is cheating on you, that doesn't mean you should cheat on him. Cheating is never okay whether or not your being cheated on.

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  • Christina's Avatar
    Posted by Christina Wed Apr 15, 2009 6:15pm PDT

    There is something said about wanting to cheat! It's to check yourself for low self esteem because if you had some; it wouldn't be a question? Please stand up for yourself and let your partner know, that this bothers you, and why or what is his motive.?

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  • Christina's Avatar
    Posted by Christina Wed Apr 15, 2009 6:29pm PDT

    I read the other questions you had and from the outside looking in it sounds like a trap a ready made toxic relationship and you not getting what you expect from this relationship becareful to take care of you 1st

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  • saraC's Avatar
    Posted by saraC Wed Apr 15, 2009 8:20pm PDT

    i want to thank you all for your advice and i will now think twice about even being in this relationship with a guy who dose not respect me.I will talk to him about my feelings and let him know what he did was not cool and I belive we do need a break so we can both decide if this is what we want cause now im having second thoughts.thanks for giving me the suport guys it gave me strenght!:)

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  • Cam's Avatar
    Posted by Cam Wed Apr 22, 2009 8:57am PDT

    dont cheat...especially if youre not sure that he cheated on you or not. most guys lie though...but still be completely sure before you do anything drastic. even if he did cheat on you...dont cheat on him back..thats childish. just leave him and move on...youll find someone better that wouldnt do that to you.

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  • michelle's Avatar
    Posted by michelle Fri Jul 3, 2009 6:11pm PDT

    No, don't cheat! Cheating is neer the answer, no matter if someone has done it to you. If he has cheated on you then leave his dumb ***!

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  • michelle's Avatar
    Posted by michelle Fri Jul 3, 2009 6:12pm PDT

    No, don't cheat! Cheating is neer the answer, no matter if someone has done it to you. If he has cheated on you then leave his dumb ***!

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