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Saturday, December 12, 2009

Should I Stay or Go?

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I received a message from my boyfriends father today, in short telling me to leave my boyfriends alone because he broke up with me 2 weeks ago but is apparently too blinded by my manipulations. I cannot get through to my boyfriend at this point, but you would think that a boy/man of 21 would be able to stand up to his father and end a year long relationship by himself. My question here is do i patiently wait for him to reply and contact me or do i forget about the relationship now? 

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  • yahoo user's Avatar
    Posted by yahoo user Sun Aug 16, 2009 2:36am PDT

    Your boyfriend broke up with you two weeks ago and you're still trying to contact him? My bet is that your boyfriend is too gutless to tell you he is no longer interested in having a relationship, and has actually told his father what to say to you. Move on, you are wasting your time with this.

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  • katherine's Avatar
    Posted by katherine Sun Aug 16, 2009 2:44am PDT

    hello there Ms. Sammai, we have the same situation just broke up with my Boyfriend last month, it was really painful but you have to pick up the pieces for yourself, for me breaking up means maturity and growth...Go girl, get some new look, cut your hair, hair dyed, focus to your study or work, meet some new friends, be more sexy (do some exercise and diet). A man like them without a disposition in life should be out of our life they are nothing. Just look at the brighter side....being single is happy...you dont deserve him!!!!

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  • jem's Avatar
    Posted by jem Sun Aug 16, 2009 3:17am PDT

    im also in this situation now, yes its painful though only 1wk

    since he didnt call me but it seems forever,but i have to be firm not call him,everytime we have miscommunication it always end up with my saying sorry im feed up and very very tired.

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    Posted by jem Sun Aug 16, 2009 3:18am PDT

    im also in this situation now, yes its painful though only 1wk

    since he didnt call me but it seems forever,but i have to be firm not call him,everytime we have miscommunication it always end up with my saying sorry im feed up and very very tired.

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  • Sammai's Avatar
    Posted by Sammai Sun Aug 16, 2009 7:05am PDT

    cheers for the advice, it was all ended and over and done with tonight, he has issues and needs to grow up... seems rugby and the gym is just too exciting for a relationship

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