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  Posted by Luvleigh~ Wed Aug 6, 2008 6:56am PDT

  I think your purely over reacting, like you've said its just a dream, and people dream all the time, so no harm no foul...

  However continue to stay faithful, and all will work out

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  Posted by Campbell's Soup Wed Aug 6, 2008 6:58am PDT

  Dude it was just a dream don't tell her.

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  Posted by urassismine2 Wed Aug 6, 2008 6:59am PDT

  why create an emotional situation when she is perfectly find in her mind, about you? You reap what you sow, and trust, is very hard to recover. C'mon already!

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  Posted by SometimesHappy Wed Aug 6, 2008 7:09am PDT

  My answer to you is "not right now". I had the same thing happen, where I had a sexual dream about a coworker. I felt so bad and guilty. I would never cheat on my fiance and I love him to death. I didn't tell him when it happened, I was too upset about it. I waited til one night almost a year later when we were having one of our "deep and emotional" talks and told him about it. I'm sure the fact the the man I had the dream about no longer worked with me helped alot, and the fact that we were already sharing things of an intimate nature. And it was a great relief to finally get it off my chest.

  But you have to do what is right for you, and how and when you bring it up will determine how your girlfriend will react to the news. If my fiance had the same dream you did, and he waited until, say, his friend in the dream came up into conversation and he said something to me like "oh, yeah, I have to tell you about this crazy dream I had about him and ...!" And he acted very cool and wierded out about it, I wouldn't think anything about it except it was a freak dream. But then again, it all depends on your girlfriend. What ever you do, DO NOT not tell her about it. Because if you tell others, but not her, and she finds out about it anyway, she will be p!ssed.

  Good Luck.

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  Posted by Gladys-May Wed Aug 6, 2008 7:15am PDT

  Hey, Man!! If u feel u need to tel her go ahead, maybe you'l be able to live with yourself.

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  Posted by M@R!@ Wed Aug 6, 2008 7:26am PDT

  It was only a dream. Keep it to yourself.

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  Posted by boofalochic Wed Aug 6, 2008 7:47am PDT

  I say that it would be fine to tell her. I have a little bit of a jealous side but if my boyfriend told me about a dream then i wouldnt get mad at him for it. As long as she trusts that you are not cheating and would never cheat as you say you wouldnt, then you have nothing to really worry about. Its just a dream and we cannot control our dreams. Half the times I dont even remember my dreams enough to relay them to someone else.

  I would of course rag on my man a little about the dream...perhaps while driving by a massage place and then ask him if he wanted to see if they were offering HAPPY ENDINGS...but all in good fun!

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  Posted by Sasha Wed Aug 6, 2008 10:27am PDT

  Why would you do that?

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  Posted by mona Wed Aug 6, 2008 10:28am PDT

  its a guy thing dont sweat it. it was only a dream. now if you want to tell her first think about this situation here is to ask yourself quetions like: how would she take it and will she be mad an so on

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  Posted by Jacie Wed Aug 6, 2008 10:29am PDT

  The same thing happened to me, only i dreamed he cheated on me.. i did not tell my boyfriend, because i know he loves me and would never cheat on me....I am jealous and would probably be mad at him like it really happened. So I decided telling him about the dream would only cause problems...If i were you i would keep it to your self or talk to a friend about it...

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