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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Should we be looking at more penises? Tom Ford thinks so!


Tom's been stirring the controversy pot for years, but his latest ad campaign takes the cake for making some folks just plain indignant, and starting a national conversation about ad bans and censorship. Feminists took one particular image (above) to heart because it alludes to a violent act against women, but I find Ford to be an equal opportunity debaser with this male version:


Um, keep in mind, these are ads for his new sunglasses collection, ahem. But anyhoo, his latest public plea comes in a New York Magazine blurb that claims Tom is irked that no one wants to look at dicks:

"Tom Ford has encountered yet another speed bump in his lifelong quest to make the world okay with male nudity. For the spring/summer issue of Britain’s GQ Style, he wrote an impassioned essay questioning why exposed penises seem to be the last taboo. “As much as I’ve tried, it has been consistently harder to get images of nude men onto magazine pages and billboards than it has nude women,” he wrote. “There’s a double standard at play here: magazines that are happy to fund ads featuring an artfully-lit female nude will balk at an image of her male counterpart.” So imagine Ford’s surprise when he picked up a copy of his essay and the photo spread he’d directed in GQ Style to discover artfully placed blocks of text on every photo. “They censored all the penises!” he told us at the CFDA awards on Monday. “I was really pissed off about that. That wasn’t why I got [involved]. It was supposed to be full-frontal male nudity, which was the way we shot it, and then the magazine censored all that!"--New York Magazine

So Tom is the victim in all this? Huh. But maybe there's something in his assertion that we, as a society, are far more forgiving when it comes to female nudity than to men. Certainly, people are shocked when we see male frontal nudity in films, but boob shots are old hat. Thoughts?

SEE ALSO: "Banned in the USA: Have sexual images in advertising gone too far?" and "Should this Tom Ford ad be banned?"
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  • Mary Alice's Avatar
    Posted by Mary Alice Thu Jun 5, 2008 8:07pm PDT

    Ford is correct; female nudes are everywhere in film, etc. Male nudes are taboo--look at the fuss about the naked guy in Forgetting Sarah Marshall. We need equal ogling opportunity, thank you. This hasn't been a big deal in foreign films for many years. And how can the ad with the woman biting the guy's finger be anti-woman--she's evidently not letting him get away with anything.

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  • Redvioletskydancer's Avatar
    Posted by Redvioletskydancer Thu Jun 5, 2008 8:34pm PDT

    They all look alike anyways. My friend Jenny and I were looking for a guy my boss wanted to go out with in Beverly Hills. His name was Derek. He gave us Derek's picture and said Derek used adult friend finder, www.aff.com Well let me tell you the picture he gave us was absolutely useless.It was of Derek's face and on the website it was like one face in 500 dicks. Ridiculous. They all looked alike too. What if you were going to date a man from the site. You would have to say okay so and so pull down your pants, wait a minute it doesn't look like the picture, oh that was your roomate, he is better hung go get him, sorry not interested in you anymore. Gross! Women are more attractive nudes for the most part get real. They have softer, warmer, curvier bodies. Kevin Bacon was nude in Wild Things 2 and there was no uproar. I think it depends on the guy and his equipment.

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  • Sooner Babe's Avatar
    Posted by Sooner Babe Thu Jun 5, 2008 11:28pm PDT

    I disagree with the comment above. Each penis has it's own 'personality.' I have seen some terribly ugly ones and there are some very nice looking ones. Women all look different too. The male body can be disgusting, depending on the body and what you find attractive. But it can also be a work of art. Look at the statue of David. (forget the minute penis for a second). Every muscle is so detailed. It is beautiful. It goes the same for women, some are not that great.

    I do think it is a mans world in that all sexually explicit material reveals only the women. It is a double standard. After reading this, I did a search for good looking nude men on the net. I found plenty of them. But all the sites were again directed towards a male audience. They were all gay porn sites. Not for me, thanks.

    By the way, the only frontal male nudity I can ever recall in a movie was "The Crying Game" with Forest Whittaker.

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  • LaurenZ's Avatar
    Posted by LaurenZ Fri Jun 6, 2008 5:07am PDT

    Hells yeah Tom Ford! I'm all for seeing more penis!!!!

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  • Ralph's Avatar
    Posted by Ralph Fri Jun 6, 2008 6:08am PDT

    I take offense to the above comment about the minute penis. I look just like the statue. I work hard on my body, but there is not much I can do to change the size of my male part!

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  • oohay's Avatar
    Posted by oohay Fri Jun 6, 2008 6:18am PDT

    There’s no double standard, unless people start putting crotch shots of women on billboards. Our society is becoming too sex driven and there should be less of nude women and men in public. It’s having a negative impact on kids who are experimenting and younger and younger ages. (this is all coming from a mid 20’s guy not some old dude). The effects didn’t really hit me until I started working with adolescents at a psych hospitals in college.

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  • madness's Avatar
    Posted by madness Fri Jun 6, 2008 6:27am PDT

    I totally agree w/Tom. It is the 21st century, come on!Its about time things get equal about that. I hate when you know a movie is going to have sex scene and you are sitting there w/your boyfriend and they show everything on a woman,and always the women are beautiful and your supposed to enjoy watching your boyfriend watching "that". I mean , thats what most the bad self images come from. I think if movies started having nude men in them things would be much easier, in more ways than one! Not even on the playboy channel do they show men, what is up w/that????

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  • Lakshmikant's Avatar
    Posted by Lakshmikant Fri Jun 6, 2008 6:38am PDT

    Nudity whether it related to male or female is a awkward show and should be avoided.

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  • pink's Avatar
    Posted by pink Fri Jun 6, 2008 6:43am PDT

    A large equipment is always a pride to the two in action so long as they are not gay.

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  • RIVERCOOKIE's Avatar
    Posted by RIVERCOOKIE Fri Jun 6, 2008 6:44am PDT

    The Debate of the penises...Well let me say this...I guess there aren't many things that a penis can do.....except hang around waiting it's turn...God made us all, and He also had a use for the penis in mind when He did...Hey guys and gals...He did not intend for people to live like animals who do not have a brain designed as ours are...we are supppose tohave dominion over tha animals not act like a jackass without a brain!

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