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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Show 40% of Your Skin to Get Men

A new study reveals just how much YOU should reveal to attract men.
- Carrie Seim, BettyConfidential.com
Want to get a guy? Show a little skin! But only 40 percent – no more, no less.

That’s according to new scientific research from the University of Leeds, which found that women who expose exactly 40 percent of their skin attract twice as many males.

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CoCo Chanel arrived at a similar conclusion years ago when she quipped, “Fashion is architecture: it is a matter of proportions.”

But how to determine the exact proportions ideal for luring men? We’ve all spent time in front of a mirror debating between the miniskirt or the strapless top … or the miniskirt AND the strapless top. But no one’s ever conducted a cost-benefit analysis on the ratio of skin-to-cloth before.

Lucky for us, scientists in the U.K. have solved this sartorial dilemma once and for all. Four of the group’s fearless female researchers went undercover at a nightclub and observed the interplay between skin and men. They used tape recorders to note which women got asked to dance by men most frequently, according to the study, published in the journal Behaviour.

According to the researchers’ rubric, arms counted for 10 percent each, legs earned 15 percent each and naked torsos registered a whopping 50 percent. (Guess it’s OK to rock a bare midriff as long as you wear a belt to cover that extra 10 percent?)

Those women who exposed 40 percent of their skin got the most male attention. Those who covered up too much were ignored. (Poor little turtlenecked wallflowers!)

However, women who shimmied around showing too much skin were also shunned.

“Any more than 40 percent and the signal changes from 'allure' to one indicating general availability and future infidelity,” the study’s leader, psychologist Colin Hendrie, tells the Daily Mail.

"Show some leg, show some arm, but not any more than that."

Are you reading this Pamela Anderson? How about you, Miley Cyrus? Put on some pants, Lady Gaga!

So how do you pull together a look that’s 40 percent fabulous flesh – no more, no less? It gets tricky if you use the scientists’ specific rule that each arm counts for 10 percent and each leg 15 percent. The following clothing calculations will land you at 40 percent on the dot ... and also on the fashion “don’t” list!

- A sleeveless shirt and one-legged trousers. Arrrgh, matey!

- Hot pants and a top with ¾ length sleeves. Hello, 1970s stewardess!

- A “burkini.” Burka on top, bikini on the bottom.

The scientists offer one more tip for reeling in the guys. Apparently women who followed to 40 percent plan AND wore tight clothes AND engaged in “provocative dancing” lured in the most men by far, being approached by 40 men each.

Looks like we’ll all be shopping for shorts and renting Dirty Dancing this weekend. Sigh.

As Mark Twain said, “The finest clothing made is a person's skin, but, of course, society demands something more than this.”

What outfit gets you the most attention?

Carrie Seim, Betty’s L.A. Correspondent, is a writer and comedian keeping it real in L.A., New York and @ www.carrieseim.com.

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  • SILENT KNIGHT's Avatar
    Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:04am PST

    I guess this is true to a degree if Men where that hard to get or figure out as if they were complicated or something. It kinda makes you wonder though why full nudity sells so much better than partial nudity. This must be another one of those articles about feminine men. I love to see my woman with close on, but in all respect I'd rather see her wearing perfume and a smile.

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  • None's Avatar
    Posted by None Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:50am PST

    Heard this LOL, I show what I want, for ME, and dress how I want.

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  • Q's Avatar
    Posted by Q Mon Nov 30, 2009 3:24pm PST

    I would say be careful, because that man may not be what you want. A real man doesn't want a women show'n all the goods anyway!

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  • Don Juan Demento's Avatar
    Posted by Don Juan Demento Mon Nov 30, 2009 5:16pm PST

    This is a "double standard" that I learned to accept even with my initial grumbles based upon watching too much crap on TV. Women usually are allowed to show some flesh to attract us men while we must rely on a combination of intellegence and emotional availability to seduce the ladies in kind!

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  • Azn Banana's Avatar
    Posted by Azn Banana Mon Nov 30, 2009 5:44pm PST

    this is too scientific for me. percent?! really??

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  • des's Avatar
    Posted by des Mon Nov 30, 2009 6:34pm PST

    I say dress how you want everyone. It's not how much skin you show to get you what you want or who you want it's about confidence, personality and yes clothes do leave a first impression. So if you dressy showing to much a guy will think you want a one night stand and if you dressed to covered up he'll probably ignore you. But dress how you want and what makes you feel like you look good in what your wearing.

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  • Lynn's Avatar
    Posted by Lynn Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:03pm PST

    Ugh. I hate it when articles like this completely go over everyone's head.

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  • Robert's Avatar
    Posted by Robert Mon Nov 30, 2009 8:26pm PST

    If you got the body, then show it. Don't be suprised at the kind of men who will look.

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  • Tom's Avatar
    Posted by Tom Mon Nov 30, 2009 8:46pm PST

    I was going to say 39.5%, I bet there is going to be a phone app that measures it though from the picture taken.

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  • T-von's Avatar
    Posted by T-von Mon Nov 30, 2009 11:54pm PST

    "Want to get a guy? Show a little skin! But only 40 percent – no more, no less.

    That’s according to new scientific research from the University of Leeds, which found that women who expose exactly 40 percent of their skin attract twice as many males."

    This statement may be true but the next question is what type of men? Are these men just seeking sex or a man that wants to put a ring on your finger someday? This is the big question. I may be wrong but I am guessing that this 40% crap is going to be attracting the sex seekers. You aren't leaving anything to the imagination for the man and that's asking for a "hit it and quit it." I may be a weirdo as well but finding the right woman isn't about looks at all(not really anyway). It's all about personality, confidence, and attitude. A woman who is passing in all of these qualities is 1 I can chill with any day of the week! Oh and to None. After reading your comments for a while, this comment you just left reveals to me why you haven't had sex in a while. (According to your past comments.)

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