Am not going to state that we shouldn't give our all to our other. Still do that and keep loving them w/ all our heart. When in a relationship, we must continue to think for ourself, fulfill and satisfy ourself w/ all that we can do for ourself by ourself like if/when we were a lone. This I believe is a mindset of an independent person. This will ensure satisfaction, most importantly I believe, a feeling of contentment within ourself because we are doing and creating this feeling of satisfaction and contentment by ourself and w/ ourself; thus obtaining our own true happyness that evolves from inside ourself.
It should be maintained at like 40% happyness from the other and 60% happyness deriving from ourself, a respective balance of "happy juice" when you're in a relationship. So we don't go crazy over our xlove.
Don't let any one (our love) be the holder of ALL our joy, our laughters, most importantly our happyness. For once they are gone, we may forget who and what we were before we met them. When we love somebody, we must not forget about ourself, who and what we were before we met that love of our life. For those times we were a lone, we were fine w/ out anyone and why shouldn't we be fine now w/ out them? Life has options and choices which were a gift to us.
