Love + Sex
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Sometimes it stops, sometimes it flows… but that is how love goes
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- by Andrei, on Sun Nov 15, 2009 7:56pm PST
Although the L word gets
thrown around a lot in relationships, the truth is that love tends
to go through somewhat of a pattern. One day it feels really
intense while another day it seems to fade away. Women would rarely
admit this during the relationship because they fear it might
trigger off a break-up, but many times it’s rather evident. That
doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is going downhill,
however if it occurs frequently then it’s probably a different
story.
It is a sensitive subject and is not
often the topic of discussion. In fact it is almost like a secret
everyone tries to keep to themselves. Sometimes we find ourselves
absorbed with personal issues, other times we might disagree on
something and argue relentlessly, or else we may simply feel like
we need our own space for a while. During such times it’s not easy
to deal with intimacy. There’s only so much we can take in at once,
and if we’re caught up in thought, be it a personal problem or a
recent argument it can definitely hinder the feelings we have
towards our significant
other.
Perhaps it just doesn’t seem
rational to most people how feelings can appear to change so
drastically in such a short time. There are things in life which we
just cannot always grasp, but sometimes you have to accept them the
way they are and move on.
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Posted by Abby Sun Nov 15, 2009 8:03pm PST
"Those three words
Are said too much.
Then not enough."
"Chasing Cars" by Snow Patrol
Pretty much says it all.
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Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Sun Nov 15, 2009 8:39pm PST
Love doesn't change...people who don't understand it do. Some people will always be little kids inside who can't wait to feel like grown ups no matter how responsible they seem in other aspects of life. Love is for a more mature audience who can handle the weight of what's going on instead of getting crushed or pressured. Love is more than deep feelings of intimacy and belonging...Love is far greater than sex...Love is everything good inside of you that shines through and connects with ALL of GODs creations, but that greatest bond is reserved for husbands and wives and not girlfriend, boyfriend or sex partner. Love is a great honor and should be respected as such.
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Posted by Botsalo Mon Nov 16, 2009 6:22am PST
To me love is a gift from god so we have to respect it, be fair, honest, faithfull and as well as a respect on each other. It is very important to love your partner all the time have uncoditional love. Its true love is far much greater than sex.
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Posted by Mauna Mon Nov 16, 2009 7:44am PST
Yeah, and this is what makes a relationship that has real and true love in it, that much more exciting...always trying to figure out what's going on with your partner since they (if full of life) always have something (hopefully good and exciting) up their sleeves! If Love was always predictable (which it tends to be once 'everything' if figured out) it becomes extremely boring! Living a little and spontaneity add 'spice' to love.
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Posted by jaygirl Mon Nov 16, 2009 7:50am PST
i met a women who had been married 60 years and i asked her how she made it last so long and her answer was to make sure that you dont fall out of love at the same time that there is always one that was still in love and it makes sense
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Posted by BrokenHearted_Girl30 Tue Nov 24, 2009 5:58am PST
Love is when you are ready to give and at the same time to take....love means to forget and to forgive,understanding,honest and when you love you do everything not to hurt the one you love....love moves in mysterious way...you will never know whats next.....
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