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  Posted by jo jo Sat Nov 14, 2009 7:14pm PST

  It is kinda but you should not really look at it like that. That is the mentality that some hookers have. That is how some of them justify what they are doing. But when you are a girlfriend aren't you trying to lead up to being a wife?

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  Posted by urassismine2 Sat Nov 14, 2009 8:17pm PST

  Ms.Crys,..I think its all in the intent. A gold digger is definitely a prostitute, just not a very good one. A girlfriend is a woman taking a risk, by doing something that she's ill prepared to manage well, because of the job description, and the skills needed to be successful. A business partner, on the other hand, works from a sound position from the get go, so maybe that is the position that a real woman should be looking at the proposition of choosing someone to move forward with. A she isn't a pro. She's a business woman!...just a thought...

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  Posted by Robert Sun Nov 15, 2009 12:31am PST

  No it's not the same. A prostitute, only mission is to get money. She will have sex with almost anyone. Sometimes you spend time with your girl and no sex happens. She choose you and rejected others.

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  Posted by June Sun Nov 15, 2009 1:51am PST

  lol

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  Posted by Tracee Sun Nov 15, 2009 7:24pm PST

  TO ME IF YOU GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP JUST GETTING MONEY, AND NO LOVE THEN I CAN SAY YES IT'S THE SAME.BUT YOU GOT TO START OFF SOME WERE FOR HIM TO BECOME YOUR HUSBAND. HE MUST BUY YOU NICE THINGS TO SHOW YOU THAT U WOULD NEVER HAVE TO ASKED ANOTHER MAN FOR ANYTHING IN LIFE. SO IF YOU FEEL LIKE A PROSTITUTE THEN YOU MUST NOT OF HEARD THOSE MAGIC WORDS AS OFTEN AS YOU SHOULD FROM THAT MAN THAT SUPPOSE TO LOVE YOU.

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  Posted by Tracee Sun Nov 15, 2009 7:24pm PST

  TO ME IF YOU GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP JUST GETTING MONEY, AND NO LOVE THEN I CAN SAY YES IT'S THE SAME.BUT YOU GOT TO START OFF SOME WERE FOR HIM TO BECOME YOUR HUSBAND. HE MUST BUY YOU NICE THINGS TO SHOW YOU THAT U WOULD NEVER HAVE TO ASKED ANOTHER MAN FOR ANYTHING IN LIFE. SO IF YOU FEEL LIKE A PROSTITUTE THEN YOU MUST NOT OF HEARD THOSE MAGIC WORDS AS OFTEN AS YOU SHOULD FROM THAT MAN THAT SUPPOSE TO LOVE YOU.

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Sun Nov 15, 2009 8:33pm PST

  Thanks for the posts all... very interesting concepts from the man bloggers and the women.

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  Posted by *Rae* Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:18am PST

  Well Twin*, as we were discussing, and as I reflect on this subject matter...I'm thinking okay...the community seems to have an idealistic perception of "girlfriend/boyfriend" relationships...and this is fine and dandy, but...it doesn't always work like this. We have to learn what is a person's true motive behind his or her actions...I've had a guy call me his girlfriend in one breath and in the next he's looking at someone else's butt...I'm just like wtf? Then he will offer me $, food, and sex...want either of the 3 from me...and then turn around and look confused when the marriage discussion comes up...then wonders why when he calls I don't answer...obviously he's "psycho". I really like the "business" partner analogy. Know who/what u are dealing with before any transactions take place; services, money, time...and your heart...because the latter is not a pretty sight...u are left with only some material reminders of this "deal" gone wrong. Good Night!!

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  Posted by *Rae* Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:26am PST

  Well Twin*, as we were discussing, and as I reflect on this subject matter...I'm thinking okay...the community seems to have an idealistic perception of "girlfriend/boyfriend" relationships...and this is fine and dandy, but...it doesn't always work like this. We have to learn what is a person's true motive behind his or her actions...I've had a guy call me his girlfriend in one breath and in the next he's looking at someone else's butt...I'm just like wtf? Then he will offer me $, food, and sex...want either of the 3 from me...and then turn around and look confused when the marriage discussion comes up...then wonders why when he calls I don't answer...obviously he's "psycho". I really like the "business" partner analogy. Know who/what u are dealing with before any transactions take place; services, money, time...and your heart...because the latter is not a pretty sight...u are left with only some material reminders of this "deal" gone wrong. Good Night!!

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Wed Nov 25, 2009 8:54am PST

  ooooh* I love the statement, of finding out what the true motive is... I have my interview questions all lined up for the nex draft round pick* in fact, my iron chastity belt will also come in handy* lol@psycho* and as always u know me twin* good night.

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