Spicing it up a little.

Me and My significant other have been together for a year and 5 months now. He is everything I have hoped to find in a man and more, he treats me wonderfully and makes my head spin just as fast as it did in the beginning.

We still do lots of things together, disregarding the fact, We have lived together for awhile, I know most of my girlfriends say once you live with one another, you grow bored of each other and start to pull apart, but it's been quite the opposite for me. :)

Anyways, what I'm really getting to with this blog is our sex life and maybe a little suggestions from you. Now don't get me wrong, our sex life is amazing! And it still is to this day. Its not gotten dull, boring, or unsatisfying in any way at all. Its still just as exciting as the first time we had sex, BUT with both me and him being on the wild side in the bed, (me a little bit more than him) I want to take our sex to a whole new level, In which hes never really ventured on, but I have. I want to introduce him to things like Karma Sutra, different positions(not that we really ever do it in just one boring position) and most of all Sex toys.

We have had the conversation on were I'd like to use hot oils and candle wax during our foreplay, which is something he doesn't really do, and I ask him his opinion on it, and he just shrugs and says we will eventually get there, but we haven't yet. I personally would like to start off the foreplay, but sometimes he just sits there stiff and like a wooden plank(haha good time for that)while I do most of the work.. which sometimes is a turn off, but the sex is still good, after the attempt of foreplay. It's not like we have sex less.. well we do, we used to do it 4 or 5 times a day in the beginning, now its down to twice a day if that, but its consistent.

Maybe as for the foreplay, Ladies out there, Am I possibly doing something wrong? At times I will come up to him and show signs I am all hot and bothered, and caress him with kisses from the lips down to below, and I use my hands as much as possible while doing this, and yet he's kinda just "trying" to go with the flow, then he soon afterwards ravages me. But its seems like he doesn't really, should I say "know" what to do during times of foreplay. I don't want to be a ass and just come out and say "Do you know what to do with your hands?" I mean I've shown him my "hot" spots and he gets to them slowly.

I've also mentioned introducing toys to our sex life, and he said he'd like the idea, but doesn't want to sell himself out to a imitation penis that will always be "hard" no matter what. I told him it was just for something different, and he just looks at me with a disgruntled look, and quickly changes the subject.
He's said on often occasions he would like to use them, but after it looked to be a unforgiving topic between us, I don't really mention it much anymore. 

As we both like sex in public, that's a step up in our sex life so far, But I would like to know if I'm being to pushy with the top of trying new things? Or am I doing something wrong with foreplay? Maybe try a different approach? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. :)

Thank you readers for taking the time to read this!