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Friday, December 4, 2009

stressed, humiliated and overwhelmed!!!!

dpt of children and families came to my house wednesday. they interview me and my daughter, and then followed me to get my son at his high school so they could talk to him too.

everything went well, but my question here is, can i use this againts my husband for custody of my children? i mean, since its bc of his OD that they are now checking on us...

i feel so violated!!! having strangers in my house checking on us, as if we are criminals and now i have to do a drug test, which is fine, the only thing i dont like its the fact that i have to pee in front of some woman, as if im the criminal here, were this is my husband's doing!!! its simply not fair!!!! its humiliating!!! im glad i have nothing to hide, its the principal of it...

im very frustrated right now...on top of everything, my daughter just had surgery and now i have less time for other things since i have to care for her 24/7 bc she has to be out of school for 2 weeks and i dont have anybody to help me out.

my inlaws feel they are helping me by helping their granddaughter, so they havent even called to see how she did in her surgery, or visited, not to the hospital or my home...its too much stress to handled!!!!

thanks for any advice, i need it...

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  • Tasha's Avatar
    Posted by Tasha Fri Jul 3, 2009 3:53am PDT

    ok. this is the short version of my story. I have an 11 yr. old son. For the past 5 yrs. i haven't been in his life. I was into some very? bad things and didn't want him involved. But for the past 5 months or so his father has let me have my weekends. Now for the summer his father has sent him to me for the rest of the month. And i am really scared. I am stressing entirely to much, past the point of sickness. I am not quiet ready for a whole month yet. I haven't parented in 5 yrs. What do I do? Please help!!!????

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  • danigirl's Avatar
    Posted by danigirl Fri Oct 9, 2009 4:07pm PDT

    shoot yourself!!!!!!!!!!!! I have been fighting for my son for 3 yrs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I cant imagine NOT being a parent everyday of my life. Iasn't that why you had a child? why don't you get over stupid, and childish, and grow-up for your child!!! you make me sick!!!!

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