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Saturday, December 5, 2009

The 7 Most Romantic (Slightly Cheesy) Songs Ever

I'm not afraid to admit that Taylor Swift's Love Story makes me cry. This weekend, I was listening to it on repeat, over, and over, and over again. It brings me right back to that heart-stopping, knee-wobbly feeling of romance—something I've been missing a lot in my own life.



I'm a sucker for romance, and I love a good, lyrical pop ballad. I feel like a romantic song should be slightly cheesy, slightly embarrassing if anyone sees it on your iPod, shouldn't necessarily be something you'd want to listen to while you get it on but should be something that always—no matter where you are or what you're doing—makes you remember the way romance should be.

Here are my favorite romantic songs—what are yours? (Note I didn't put any Celine Dion or Whitney Houston in this list—for some reason, those ladies just don't do it for me!)

She's in Love with the Boy
Trisha Yearwood's sweet ode to adolescent romance is simple, lovely, and has just the right amount of conflict to make it a country song.

Moon River
—My personal favorite is a Barbara Streisand pop-ballad version. I'll also admit that, when I lived in an apartment with a conveniently romantic fire escape (it faced a back alley and was only fifteen blocks away from where Hollly Golightly is supposed to live in Breakfast at Tiffany's), I used to hang out there, listening to the song and drinking a glass of wine. Unfortunately, I didn't have a cute downstairs neighbor. Instead, I had a sweet upstairs neighbor named Raffi who always asked me out to coffee, but I always said no because our hallway conversations were always about the weather and I was worried we'd have nothing in common.

Romeo and Juliet (Dire Straights version is ideal, but there's also an Indigo Girls version I'll listen to)—In high school, my friend and I used to drive around before class, belting this one out as we bemoaned our current lack of romance.

There is Love—I have a special place in my pseudo-hippie heart for Peter, Paul, and Mary and this song always, always, ALWAYS makes me cry. My brother and his wife used this song for their wedding ceremony (held out in the woods in Virginia) and it was so simple and haunting and beautiful, it reminds me to hold out for real romance.

Crimson and Clover
—Joan Jett is a whole lot of rock and roll and I love this version. Seriously, if I ever get married, I'd want to walk (rock?) down the aisle to this one. It's sweet and strong and fun and always makes me happy.

Truly, Madly, Deeply
—Back in 1998, this Soundgarden Savage Garden (oops! sorry 'bout that!) song was always on the radio. It inspired me to break up with my high school boyfriend because I realized not only did I not love him, I didn't even really like him that much.

Your turn!

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Mon Apr 6, 2009 8:41am PDT

    An old song by Roberta Flack.. " First Time Ever I Saw Your Face". I think that's the name if it. Very poetic.

    "Always on My Mind", Willie Nelson

    "The Nearness of You", Nora Jones

    "Have I Told You Lately", Van Morrison

    "Chances Are", Bob Seger

    Ok, it's not really a love song, but Meat Loaf really rocks "Two Out of Three Ain't Bad"

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  • DLW's Avatar
    Posted by DLW Mon Apr 6, 2009 10:34am PDT

    Wasn't Truly, Madly, Deeply by Savage Garden??

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  • Randy J's Avatar
    Posted by Randy J Mon Apr 6, 2009 10:46am PDT

    Unchained Melody

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  • HEATHER's Avatar
    Posted by HEATHER Mon Apr 6, 2009 10:59am PDT

    yes, it was savage garden.

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  • Kate's Avatar
    Posted by Kate Mon Apr 6, 2009 11:10am PDT

    Some of my favorites are Have I Told You Lately Rod Stewart . anything Eric Clapton . Dixie Chicks Cowboy Take Me Away , Unchained Melody . There are alot to choose from .

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  • fools_and_sages's Avatar
    Posted by fools_and_sages Mon Apr 6, 2009 11:28am PDT

    My top 10. . .

    1. Bryan Adams: Everything I Do (I Do it for You). The theme from the Kevin Costner Robin Hood cheesefest. But an amazing song that I would play as my wedding dance song (if I ever get married) because being willing to do anything for somebody shows how much you love them.

    2.Edwin McCain: How Could I Ask for More. A song that simply says I found it all in you and I'm happy because of you. How could two people in love ask for more?

    3. Bib Seger: You'll Accompany Me. This song is about a guy who wants a woman so bad that he finds it necessary to better himself before he goes for her. . ."You're high above me flying wild and free. . Someday lady you'll accompany me."

    4. Trisha Yearwood: How Do I. This is a sensitive song that expresses total devotion, unconditional love, and the inability to live without somebody without Micheal Bolton's whiny rasp screaming "How am I supposed to live without you?"

    5. Lonestar: Amazed. This is about complete addiction to one's love-- to the point where the guy can't even understand why he loves her or where her perfection comes from. Maybe I'm amazed by this song.

    6. Celine Dion: Because You Loved Me. Now keep in mind that I HATE Celine Dion's music but this song is powerful and touching in all the right ways. It basically says this person couldn't be where they are without the love their love gave them.

    7. Bruce Springsteen: Thunder Road. He wants a woman even though she's not a beauty and he wants her to be with him when he proves he's a winner-- better than the rest of hoodlums in the streets. He's basically saying-- I can't make it without you and I want to take you with me for the ride. . .if you're up for it. . .because I don't want to see these losers take you down too. Chivalry and love. . .worth melting over.

    8. Madonna: True Blue: Just a bubble gum pop tribute to doo-wop love songs. True love, you're the one I'm dreaming of. . .song makes me want to skip down the sidewalk wearing a walkman.

    9. Aretha Franklin: (You make me feel) Like a Natural Woman. This song is all about being unable to live without your man.

    10. U2: One. Some may think this isn't a love song, but it's basically reminding a couple they have to work at love to make it work by compromising and meeting the needs of your lover. If you don't, "It leaves ya baby, if you don't care for it."

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  • TMNT's Avatar
    Posted by TMNT Mon Apr 6, 2009 1:04pm PDT

    Two occasions by babyface

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  • Lady Phee's Avatar
    Posted by Lady Phee Mon Apr 6, 2009 1:28pm PDT

    Unchained Melody by The Righteous Brothers

    How Do I by LeAnn Rhimes

    I Would Do Anything For Love by Meatloaf

    Right Here Waiting by Richard Marx

    I Will Always Love You by Whitney Houston

    Don't Want To Miss A Thing by Aerosmith

    Valentine by Martina McBride

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  • shamika's Avatar
    Posted by shamika Mon Apr 6, 2009 1:28pm PDT

    here i stand--usher

    the definition-- brandy

    breathless--corinne bailey rae

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  • adria's Avatar
    Posted by adria Mon Apr 6, 2009 1:51pm PDT

    "I Will Follow You Into The Dark" by Death Cab for Cutie.

    It's my very favorite! I would dance to it at my wedding :D

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