Love + Sex

Hi guys.. let me share u this story that bothers me til now..

i used to live with this lady, a friend, confidant and a big sister she is to me.. i work in another company and she with hers.. we share the same flat.. we share our life stories..

this confusion starts when she recieved a call on her mobile while in the shower, she ask me to answer it. so i did.. the man on the fone looking for a lady named nicole so i said wrong number as it's not her name.. the guy called again but this time she answered it and she was explaining to the guy that she is infact nicole... NICOLE is the name of my officemate that i was talkin about with her.. not realizing what she wants, i just ignored it..  then she keeps on asking about Nicole what does she wants and stuuf like that..  so i keep on feeding her information with no malice at all.. then i ask her why? she said just interested.. ok, seems fine to me..  then  i met this guy.. a super hot specie i could ever imagine...
 we got struck the first time we met.. and felt the need to be with each other so we decided to be in an exclusive relationship.. we dated, have dinners here end there.. and so when he said that he love me.. i decided to introduce him to my flatmate which is "NICOLE" .. prior to that i kinda introduce him already to her with my stories.. how hot he is, romantic, caring  etc...  we planned a dinner in my man's place with of course one of his bachelor friend to match with my friend..

From the moment that we entered in the flat of my boyfriend she acts weird again.. like she would seduce my man, looking at him intensely that she would want to get laid right there with him.. ya know, the looks of pleading.. my bf ignored her  and continue to just caress my hand.. kissing,  hugging me and just saying  good things about me.. and our plans.. the night was finally over and i told her that i will be spending the night with my bf.. and ask her to just take a cab going home.. she refused to go in the cab and she requested for my bf to drop her instead.. so my bf's friend volunteered to drive her home since my man refuse..

the next day.. back to our flat.. she told me  what she thinks about  my  boyfriend.. HE IS A WOMANIZER, LIAR AND HE WILL NOT TAKE ME SERIOUSLY, SO I BETTER BACK OFF.. OR ELSE I WILL END UP CRYING.. so i said i dont really see him in that way and as a matter of fact he prospose to me last night.. She was so shocked and furious that i said YES OF COURSE..  will be getting married in six months time..

SInce that day.. she made a lot of stories that my boyfriend (now fiance) tried to court her before me and that she refused and now i'm the second choice.. she is saying that she recieved fone calls from a guy that is my fiances  friend asking her to met with my fiance and have a dinner with him.. she tailored a lot a lot of stories to our friends, and even me questioned my fiance about it.. he just said that she is crazy.. she met her only once and that's the time we had dinner the night of the prosposal and that he doesnt frickkin know about her.. He said that she told my fiances friend that im this sick substance abuser.. im totally hooked on parties and a lot of lies.. we really had a fight on those  subjects.. that we almost end up our relationship..

Finally, we got married.. for many years now, have 2 kids..  she "NICOLE"  is still single and.. the worst thing is.. until now she is telling the same stories to our friends or her new friends and everytime im introduce to friends of friends.. they always say that " ahhhh ok, so ur the friend of J. (her real name).. and that is the famous husband of urs".. she even said to our friends that if she just said yes before SHE would be the" MRS*&^^%$ "(thats my husbands name) now ..

I know that this is sickening, but i want to know how to get rid of her lies.. I understand that sometimes when u make urself believe in one thing, you will end up believing ur own story even if it's a lie.. I want her to be my friend again and would be happy to help her in some other aspects of her life, but i dont appreciate when we invite her twice (due to my consistent plead to my husband to give her a chance) she would end up recalling to our other guests "the relationship she had with my husband" and that's not pleasant at all for me and my family..

NOw, i dont know how to really get past her own story but my husband is just saying that ignore her she is sick.. and i dont want her to believe that her version was right until now.. so .. if u can help me figure out the right words to say.. right things to do.. i would really be grateful... Thanks..

ermz...