I've been calling a lot of people out for hypocrisy lately. I
started with calling out women for their hypocrisies because those
of us guys are far more well documented but it's time for me to
call out the gents as well. I'm not letting
ANYONE off the hook.
Why is it that niceness alone doesn't seem to cut it for
anyone? This time I'm calling out the gentlemen here. For
every nice guy who has been turned down by a woman there's
undoubtedly a nice girl who's been turned down by a guy and
I'll admit, it isn't fair. There are plenty of girls who
are just as frustrated at being stuck in the friend zone as guys
are I'd be willing to bet. I've read blogs by some women
here about how they seem to get passed over by their guy friends
they're interested in for one reason or another.
It got me thinking especially about why men may pass over a good,
nice girl for one who's manipulative, mean or disrespectful.
Frankly, just as I don't understand the reasons why women date
bad guys, I don't understand why men will stay with bad
women.
Alright guys, time to fess up. Have you ever passed up a nice girl
when you shouldn't have? Do you regret it? What would you say
to her if you got the chance?
In the future, when you're looking for a good girl gents,
remember, don't pass your eyes over that girl friend or yours
who's seen you at your best and worst.
The Problem With Niceness
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Posted by Thu May 7, 2009 7:40pm PDT
Report Abusein my 19 years of inexperience well im too nice
and i seemed to get passed over for it everytime
i guess nice guys do finish last unless ur into slutty fat and ugly chicks
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Posted by Thu May 7, 2009 8:57pm PDT
Report AbuseI totally agree not to brag buti am a hot sexy single mother only been in two real realtionshhip i do what i need to please my man but he still did me over for an ex.I bent over and backward with no problem.
All i ask for in a relationship is to spend time,be honest,funny, faithful,trusting,open to communication and respect me.He is welcome to pay my bills & pay my hair n nails too but thats not required (thats why i work a full time a pt and a seasonal job).
Even though whatever i am asking of the man i have n will do throughout the relationship but i guess its too much. i have heard excuses like 'you are too clean or tidy for me'or 'sorry i am not perfect' but hey if i can be honest,funny,tidy & faithful why cant the man?
I have really been thinking that being nice or good doesn't pay.
Bad ass girls have it good.
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Posted by Thu May 7, 2009 10:14pm PDT
Report AbuseI posted this blog kind of as a keep trying to all the good women running around. I wanted to encourage you all to keep hope as I know good guys do exist. I'm one (or so I'm told) and I know a boat load of them as well.
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Posted by Wed May 13, 2009 9:35am PDT
Report AbuseThe same thing is between a womans leg if they are nice or "bad." It's all about having the skills to get inbetween.
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Posted by Thu May 14, 2009 8:14am PDT
Report Abusei feel ya. i have mamy guy friends... and its not till years later that they confess n say they were attracted to me... but never said s--- cuz we were friends... or they wanted something else. it sucks, mainly because i get to know the real person in there n vice versa, and love them for thier heart... but it never really comes out in time. EH, i guess it happens for a reason.
SO, MR. NICE GUY... :) YOU GOT FRIENDS JUST AS NICE AS YOU? MAKE IT HAPPEN! LOL, hook a gurll up. lol jk homes... LOVE THE BLOG AS USUAL! KUDOS!
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