Love + Sex

Thursday, December 3, 2009

The real deal from the could have been other woman...

Married ladies, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it is not always about sex when a man cheats.  Yes, most man do think with their crotch.  In my situation, it was an ex boyfriend and we reconnected after 10 years.  We loved each and had a deep spiritual connection  and common interests. We did not make it physical.  Emotional affairs are real and far more intimate than sexual ones.  Staying together for children is about as stupid as getting married because you are pregnant!  Don't always look for someone to blame and calling the other woman names is unecessary.  Homewrecker?  You might want to label your husband that, he is the one on the prowl!

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Fri Jul 25, 2008 11:50pm PDT

    Dear…

    For me as a married woman… I can fight, argue, communicate or what ever…

    But I told my husband since day one: if you cheat & trust me I will know it…

    I will leave peacefully from your life and disappear from the map… No blaming,, no fights..

    There is no Justification for cheating what ever the reason the spouse can come up with….

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  • Lynda's Avatar
    Posted by Lynda Mon Jul 28, 2008 9:52am PDT

    I have a very good reason for divorce...Where's the love? If love is not involved on every level of your relationship, with your spouse, then it's time to get out. Why stay if the (so called) love is gone and you're no longer loving your spouse the way you should? Maybe the reason you married in the first place was because you settled and you thought you would never find that earth moving, heart pounding, breath catching, eye appealing with animalistic attraction, gut wrenching "I can't live without you" feeling, my laughter is so much better sharing it with you, you make my toes curl, I cant' get enough of you kind of love? NO ONE should settle for anything less, because when you have all of the above, then you have everything with that true love of yours to make it last and to make anything work throughout time. Why do people even settle for anything less? I just don't get it...

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  • KARINAC's Avatar
    Posted by KARINAC Fri Aug 1, 2008 1:46pm PDT

    My question to everyone do you think that its ok to be with a marry guy? Would he ever leave his women for the other if she is not doing what she needs to do im with a marry guy as we speak and she dosent cook or clean the house for him he has to wash for himself

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  • only the strong surive's Avatar
    Posted by only the strong surive Mon Feb 9, 2009 7:05pm PST

    i would like to know do the men that women have affiars with. does he think of her when he leaves to go back to the wife..

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