The real deal from the could have been other woman...

Married ladies, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it is not always about sex when a man cheats.  Yes, most man do think with their crotch.  In my situation, it was an ex boyfriend and we reconnected after 10 years.  We loved each and had a deep spiritual connection  and common interests. We did not make it physical.  Emotional affairs are real and far more intimate than sexual ones.  Staying together for children is about as stupid as getting married because you are pregnant!  Don't always look for someone to blame and calling the other woman names is unecessary.  Homewrecker?  You might want to label your husband that, he is the one on the prowl!