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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Threesome..What would you do? And why??

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My friends fiancee suggested they go to Vegas and find someone to have a threesome? She's been with a girl before but just once and he told her "let's have a threesome" she said she will have sex with a girl and just let him watch. I told her not to do it, shes still not sure what she is going to do. She says she couldn't stand to watch her man have sex with another woman shes scared that he will like the feel of being with another girl and leave her so he can be single again.
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  • madyx's Avatar
    Posted by madyx Mon Nov 23, 2009 3:30pm PST

    oh hell!!!!!!!!!!!!! why in the world would a girl agree to have a threesome!!! Tell your friend one thing, if she agrees to do it, she better not be surprised when her fiancee start cheating on her ass.. Once he gets the chance to do it, he will ask her the permission to do it again and this time he will do it without her.

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  • Climbing's Avatar
    Posted by Climbing Mon Nov 23, 2009 3:53pm PST

    Where's the self respect? That's how desperate she is to keep/please this guy?

    Disgrace

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  • Kel's Avatar
    Posted by Kel Mon Nov 23, 2009 5:00pm PST

    if you are open to being with another female then do it. if you are afraid that he will want the other female let it be know off top that he is not to touch her only you can and if thats not cool then dont do it cuz then he really is looking to play around on you. when i did it for my man he know his hands were not to touch her body at all! it was alright but know he doesnt ever want to do that again cuz he didnt like me touching on another body. do what you want just make sure there are rules before you start and be safe

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  • Alexus's Avatar
    Posted by Alexus Mon Nov 23, 2009 5:23pm PST

    UM NOT WITH SOMEONE I LOVED OR CARED ABOUT HELL NO THERE WOULD BE BLOODY SHEETS!!!IF HE DOESNT MEAN NOTHING AND IT WAS BACK IN THE DAY DIFFERENT!!!!!!!

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  • Gigi's Avatar
    Posted by Gigi Mon Nov 23, 2009 5:53pm PST

    I've thought about doing it with my current boyfriend cause I'm curious abut being with another woman. But like your friend, I'm the jealous type who would obsess about him sleeping with another woman and potentially liking her more. Tell her not to do it since they're engaged and he seems to be pressuring her. Having a threesome should be a mutual decision, not one partner wanting it while the other is not sure.

    Good luck =)

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  • Redd's Avatar
    Posted by Redd Mon Nov 23, 2009 6:12pm PST

    what about you and she cumin to NC and get w/me? jjk; not really. ummmmm-not w/a 'fiancee'.

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  • Redd's Avatar
    Posted by Redd Mon Nov 23, 2009 6:24pm PST

    they shoulda been done that sh!t and if they made it through to 'staus' quo; all goood.

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  • mrs jaye 4life's Avatar
    Posted by mrs jaye 4life Mon Nov 23, 2009 7:12pm PST

    A threesome has to have iron-clad rules and followed to the letter. If you are the jealous type.. this is not for you. If you are afraid that he will step out on you...don't do it. If you trust that he will abide by all rules and remain faithful to you....enjoy. Also, make sure the other female is not a stalker type or has plans of her own to get what you have.

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  • anh's Avatar
    Posted by anh Mon Nov 23, 2009 10:03pm PST

    It has to be mutual; if you even have to go to a page to find out "why" you 'should' do it, there's something wrong and it hasn't been said!

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  • another hockey fan's Avatar
    Posted by another hockey fan Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:40am PST

    Somehow I really doubt he will just want to watch once the action gets going and while the idea may sound exciting, intriguing, etc, you can't know how it is or what will happen until it does. This is a fantasy and while some fantasies can heighten and add to a relationship these two are not even married yet and she doesn't say how long her friend has been with her fiancee or how old they are either. I think since her friend is questioning it and couldn't stand it if her fiancee had sex with the girl, well, I think it's a sign to let it remain a fantasy. I just hope she isn't or doesn't want to do it to please her fiancee. Not the way to go into a marriage.

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