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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

To Talk To My Ex Or Not....Decision Made

Thanks to everyone who gave me advice..I really appriciated..



Well i know i was really confused about my feelings regarding getting back with my ex. But know i took the time and though about everything that has happened.

Well in the weekend he texed me and told me how my weeken went and i told him it was really good...well he told me that his weekend was great that he went to a club dances all night and had a great time..Well abviously im not stupid and i know he took another girl because one night before he told me he was getting sick and he needed to get better by the end of the night because he had to do some stuff..so i reply really like what ..like go out and dance with girls and he didnt reply but yet he repiled to me sunday night and told me he was feeling very bad because he was very sick....

So i told my self what happened with MY LOVE , MY BABE, MY PUMPKIN PIE, MY BOO.. He wasnt telling me that in the text he was just talking to me normally..He wasnt thinking about me when he was clubbing and with the other girls right ...He though about me after the club was over..And all just to tell me he had a great time with out me..Well i had a great time with out him..I dont need no guy like that in my life..But  he could go F*** Him self because im not going to be that stupid one giving him another chance..He needs to prove to me that he douse love me like he said he douse... thats if he douse..

No more chances..I got to move on and enjoy my life... because Im done with guys like him...

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  • Emma Mae's Avatar
    Posted by Emma Mae Mon Nov 9, 2009 10:18am PST

    You are a very perceptive young lady. Good job on figuring things out.

    Hugs to you and yours

    Emma Mae

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  • Barbie's Avatar
    Posted by Barbie Mon Nov 9, 2009 10:27am PST

    You go girl!

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  • Chelle's Avatar
    Posted by Chelle Mon Nov 9, 2009 10:53am PST

    I am glad that you opened your eyes on your own. You go girl.

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  • Marinamey's Avatar
    Posted by Marinamey Mon Nov 9, 2009 6:20pm PST

    Yes, good decision. I'm sure your boo misses you and thinks about you. Why the heck will he even communicate with you if he doesn't? But so what? So what if he misses you? Missing you means nothing.

    I'm sure everyone missed their ex at some point or another. Missing is just nostalgia, a feeling for a person that used to be a part of his life. He asked you to go away or maybe you decided to leave the relationship. So what if he has fond memories of the two of you together? The important thing, the crux of it all, is if he is exerting effort to win you back. If he's not focused on getting you back, then that means he doesn't want to. As simple as that. Missing means nothing because what is important is action. Look at his behavior and not his words.

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  • Cat's Avatar
    Posted by Cat Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:10am PST

    Ya!! Great move!

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