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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Trying to find the one.

So I always get complimented of what kind of person i am based on the way my body looks or my personality it's always either/or. As I'm trying to find that "guy" I run into these types of guys:

The Past:
 I have talking about this guy many times before in my previous blogs. I have been trying so hard to forget about this one but just when I don't think about him he ends up showing up somewhere. Whether i see him somewhere or he texts me. He comes off with his sweet talk, and i just try to ignore it and move on.

The Youngin: I have this guy that I have known for about 3 months or so. about a week knowing the guy he told how much he likes me and he wants me to be with him, stuff like that. First of all, I find it kind of weird because he barely knows me but claims he knows me well enough. Second, he is 3 years younger than me. Most of you might say age is nothing but a number, but for me when it comes to dating younger guys it really bugs me. He is still stuck on me.

The Mature Youngin: This guy i don't seem to have a problem with because for being younger than me he seems somewhat as mature as I am. We have a lot in common and i love his personality. I think it would work between us. the problems are: I don't see him that much and i don't do well with situations like that, He says that he wishes that their is a future with us but he is really putting an effort to make that happen, and he is younger than me even though he is mature i still see that and something in the way.

The Crush: Me and this guy have had a crush on each other for about 2 years, which niether of us knew about til this year. Why didn't anything happen? Well he says that he wanted to ask me out when he first started liking me but he asked his friends if they thought he had a chance with me and they said no. which I don't understand why. It's not like I was Ms. hard to get with. So last year, I kind of stopped talking to him because he would act different around me when his girlfriend was around and i didn't want to deal with that. they ended up breaking up this year and after that we started to resolve things. We have been talking but I have a bad feeling about it because he is really close with his ex and he had told me before that he still and feels for her but they couldn't go out again because of some issues. So I don't want to get into that mess.

The Older guy: I met this guy about 6 months ago and we have been talking since then but he is in another state. I'm really interested in this guy but I want to get to know him a little better before getting involved. He likes me also but like i said before he is in a other state and i don't do well with long distant relationships. and he is thinking about going into the military. So that would be even worst. I love the type of person he is and everything he stands for but at the same time I haven't really had a chance to hang out with him just one on one.

That's the type of guys i have on my mind right now. well minus the youngin because I just don't think that would work out at all. Which guy do you think would be the top out of all of them? I want to hear what you have to say about this. Let me know I love to hear what you guys have to say =]
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  • another hockey fan's Avatar
    Posted by another hockey fan Sat Apr 25, 2009 8:31am PDT

    You, my dear, are finding excuses to not be with each of these guys! I don't think you really want to be with any of them and are simply enjoying the attention you are receiving from having so many guys interested in you. That's very exciting no doubt and from what it sounds like, no one is getting their feelings hurt. But just remember, guys get bored and move on more quickly than women. Pretty soon you may have no one knocking on your door....

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  • Lil Bit's Avatar
    Posted by Lil Bit Sat Apr 25, 2009 11:53am PDT

    well doll, i think that you have such a variety to choose from it may be affecting your judgement. i would say decide who actually has a chance, and then honestly weigh the pros and cons of each. if you cant rely on your gut feeling, then there is always the process of elimination. i wouldnt say totally cut the others off once you decide on one particular guy, because it seems these days you have to get beyond a person's front just to get to know who they really are. keep the lines open and never allow bein in the moment to cloud your judgement...because you can always miss a good opportunity by turning a blind eye. so pace yourself and try to be somewhat reasonable and bias while doing your decision making.........good luck with everything!

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  • Pea ELLE's Avatar
    Posted by Pea ELLE Sat Apr 25, 2009 1:20pm PDT

    Separate fantasy from reality and your choice will undoubtedly by fewer and easier.

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  • Pea ELLE's Avatar
    Posted by Pea ELLE Sat Apr 25, 2009 1:20pm PDT

    Try and separate fantasy from reality (on your list) and your choice will undoubtedly be fewer and easier.

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