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Saturday, November 28, 2009

Turns Out, Size Really Does Matter

On science's neverending quest to find the cause for the female orgasm, it's only natural "research" would blatantly contradict itself a few hundred times or so. So we weren't shocked to read a study touting the benefits of length, crowing that size does matter! So much for gifted tongue flicks—ladies get out your rulers! Read: Penis Extension Fails Catastrophically

A study led by Stuart Brody from University of the West of Scotland asked 1,000 Czech women what causes their "vaginal" orgasms. A vaginal orgasm, if you're curious, is a climax "produced simply from movements of the penis in [the] vagina without any additional stimulation."

One-third said they are more likely to climax if the man had a longer than average "member," which we suppose makes sense. Further analysis of the results proved that penis size and duration of sexytime all played important factors. But suspiciously absent from the list? Foreplay! Read: Foreplay 411

While we're sort of kicking ourselves for splashing this on the web—men shouldn't think size and duration alone cause female orgasm! The most interesting part of the study was the nod toward education. In order to gain control of the elusive female climax, researchers say women need to think more positively about their orgasms, if you will.

Professor Brody and colleagues also found that women who were 'taught that the vagina (or the vagina as well as the clitoris) was important for eliciting female orgasm' had significantly greater success in regularly achieving vaginal orgasms. Even more important was the ability to mentally focus on vaginal sensations. The researchers suggest that this ability may itself be 'due in part to having been guided to do so by sexual education.' As a result, they argue that 'it is incumbent upon sex education, sexual medicine, and wider social policy to be supportive of women's sexual health, which includes being supportive of vaginal orgasm.'

We've never 100 percent thought about it before, but yeah, sure. Maybe more vaginal orgasmic education is needed in this country. Perhaps that's the missing puzzle piece in our lackluster sex lives. We just need to pound it into our brains. Perhaps have positive orgasm mantras play on a loop in our headphones while we sleep?

Not so fast say some clitoris enthusiasts.

"The main pleasurable nerve endings are located in the clitoris and to achieve the full pleasure of orgasm, these nerve endings must be stimulated," Associate Professor Rosemary Coates, also of Curtin University of Technology and president of the World Association for Sexual Health, says. "I think these authors have clitoral envy."

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  • Maureen's Avatar
    Posted by Maureen Fri Nov 6, 2009 12:20pm PST

    but does it really matter? you're not going to ask a guy his measurements before you pursue a relationship with him. it just means that the relationship will probably end if you're not satisfied in bed.

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  • SILENT KNIGHT's Avatar
    Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Mon Nov 9, 2009 5:03am PST

    I am so sick of this question on blogs. I wish people would stop lying to each other. Women need to stop pretending to be so lady like if all they want is a Big Dick and the guys should stop being so offended if it's not big enough...hey, it is what it is and all because a Man has an amazing Dick doesn't mean he has an amazing sex life. Sexual Stereotypes are stupid. It's funny how some women can go on and on about a guys dick, but that same guy lost her in a sea of other P#$$!es and that's the same as the guys who go on and on about sex and wonder why they can't truly please a woman and just settle for physical contact and a good nut. As open as things should be to a degree privacy is an issue. There's nothing wrong with a woman needing all the dick she can stand or a woman being content with the lack thereof. Everybody just needs to get in where they fit in, but be respectably honest alot sooner than later...and in closing no matter how big or small the body parts if you don't love yourself, then how much would it really matter if someone else did? A Person as a Whole will always be Bigger than a Person who is only a Part, so size does matter especially when the most important things are weighed and measured accordingly.

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  • LoveN's Avatar
    Posted by LoveN Tue Nov 10, 2009 1:59pm PST

    Yes, Silent Knight, I think what you're saying is... to each her own... which seems to be true. Not everyone likes the same thing.

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  • Carly's Avatar
    Posted by Carly Tue Nov 10, 2009 2:19pm PST

    I'd prefer a guy who knew what he was doing rather than a clueless man who relied solely on the size of his member. There has to be more to it than just a certain number of inches.

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  • Nils's Avatar
    Posted by Nils Tue Nov 10, 2009 2:25pm PST

    Well of course size matters, the same way skill matters. This is nothing new. In the end, it's all about finding out what works for your partner.

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  • Sarah's Avatar
    Posted by Sarah Tue Nov 10, 2009 3:49pm PST

    A penis can sometimes be too long, especially if you want outside and inside stimulation. If he's so long that he can't go in any further but his pelvic area isn't grinding up against you, that's not fun. (Sorry about the graphicness.)

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  • ElizabethB's Avatar
    Posted by ElizabethB Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:35am PST

    Everything plays a factor, but size shouldn't be a dealbreaker.

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  • Denise's Avatar
    Posted by Denise Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:33pm PST

    On the one hand, it's not what you have, it's how you use it.

    On the other hand, it's a little awkward to be flirting with a big, buff, hunky guy....only to realize he ain't packing much. It's a little surprising, but not really a dealbreaker.

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  • Ray.Cougar's Avatar
    Posted by Ray.Cougar Fri Nov 13, 2009 12:45pm PST

    I'm not sure "no duh" is exactly a word that master debaters use... but "no duh."

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