Love + Sex
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Um, have you ever passed gas during sex?
partner
Dear Dr. Kate,
Is it common for women to pass gas during sex? There have been
times when my man is downtown doing a fine job and I lose control
of that particular area. Is there anything I can do about it? I'm
so embarrassed when it happens...fortunately it doesn't seem to
faze my guy. I still would like to know is there a way to stop it?
What if the next guy won't be so accepting?
Embarrassed
Dear Embarrassed,
The fact that you're that relaxed during sex (especially oral sex)
is fantastic! Unfortunately, when you're relaxed all over,
sometimes your sphincter relaxes as well. It's not unusual at all,
and my guess is that any guy you're with has had it happen before.
There's not much you can do to stop it -- don't eat foods that make
you gassy before or on a date night, and chew your food slowly. And
if a future partner is not as understanding about how funny sex can
be, he doesn't deserve you. Though, is there a chance that the
sounds are from your vagina, not your rear? I hear more about
queefing during oral sex than passing gas -- again,
totally normal. (
Can you
stop queefs from happening?)
Are any of you worried about passing gas during sex?
Related:
How do you react to noises in bed?
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Posted by whirlygirl Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:09pm PDT
air goes in. it has to come out. especially if he's going in deep from behind.
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Posted by Habanero♥™ Thu Oct 23, 2008 4:00pm PDT
KOMODO: Having sex with yourself doesn't count!!!! Pull my finger!
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Posted by Chelley V.. Thu Oct 23, 2008 4:10pm PDT
My man loves it when I fart during sex-(turns him on more) when he's kissing me down there-he has a very nice erection and I'm ready for him too!!! so enjoy!!
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Posted by ice cream Thu Oct 23, 2008 5:24pm PDT
That's disgusting. I can't imagine that happening although anything is possible through Christ:-D
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Posted by tweety Thu Oct 23, 2008 5:25pm PDT
I think it's very embarrassing to pass gas during sex, but looking at it from a adult point of view it's just part of life.
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Posted by sreg420 Thu Oct 23, 2008 6:06pm PDT
s--- happens !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted by Gail Thu Oct 23, 2008 6:13pm PDT
I know it's normal and natural to pass gas, but if I ever did it while I was being "worked on" I would expect the sex to end at that point. If he did it to me, same outcome. You are so lucky to have a man who is okay with nature's atomic bomb. Since he is, you should be too.
As for the next one...what's wrong with this one?
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Posted by Mirasol Thu Oct 23, 2008 7:16pm PDT
it happens as long its fine with your man dont stop it let it go and enjoy
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