Unconditional Love, what is it really?

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  Posted by THE REBEL JOHNNYYUMMA Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:38pm PDT

  The only unconditional love I know of is the love of(GOD) through his son (JESUS)) AND IT'S FREE JUST FOR THE ASKING!!!THE REBEL JOHNNYYUMMA?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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  Posted by Lil Boo Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:42pm PDT

  I say go to yourself. Stop thinking about how to please others and make yourself happy. If you want to move than get up and do it. You have been in love with him for 8 years and he didn't show that he cared so what makes you think the next 8 years will be different. You don't even have to move to start over just do it. Disengaged yourself with everything that reminds you of him and realize you can change for the better and in that better your future. Good Luck Hun!!!

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  Posted by BlueEyes Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:58pm PDT

  Lil Boo, My thought exactly, just need to hear it. Thanks.

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  Posted by Lina Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:17pm PDT

  i know how your feeling. I have been there and by the way he had blue eyes. He meant more to me than he never knew.(I Loved him with all my heart.) My heart, My Mind wasn't ready to leave him. I can see he didn't love me (no interest, didn't show me love anymore). Its going to take some time. Can you believe it took me a month to except what was happening to the person i loved but i would argue about things.(i had my very good reasons why). I know i don't know you but i know your family, and friends love you (don't leave them behind) he doesn't appreciate you. Didn't see the beautiful person you are inside your heart. Your to good for him and you know that. You deserve better( someone that will show you that your needed and to be loved. Love is love only if returned. take care . I know you will overcome one step at a time. (it will hurt when you heal)(it will take time). take care (:

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  Posted by urassismine2 Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:20pm PDT

  You have invested time, energy, and loss into this relationship. You have done your job, and been a woman about it. Release yourself. Its alright to just say, "hey man, thats it for me. If your broke, be broke by your self. If you don't free yourself, for a better life, the emotional slavery that your living now, is another option that you can continue. There are great men out here who will love you with more respect than a lost 8 years worth...Sounds like you have been missing alot of opportunities that you could have accepted, instead of investing in something not solid...Just a thought..Hey, I've got females in my family...

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  Posted by KittyKat Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:25pm PDT

  Move on in life and see the world

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  Posted by laurie Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:59pm PDT

  i know how u feel,i let the best thing go he did one mistake and that was cheating..and i love him to this day.try to move on tell him no more and stick to your word.and see how he likes it...

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  Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:02pm PDT

  Do what ever it is you need to do to get through.

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  Posted by yvonne Mon Oct 19, 2009 11:19pm PDT

  I'm left my husband in Aug. 09 packed up the uhaul, kids and dog. and drove across the desert in the heat. I knew if i stood in the same state as him, i would be week and drive to see him. Not to mention his family and forget all that happened between us, 14yrs. and you think may know someone, and think maybe it will get better if...so move on get youself together..I signed up for some college courses, going job hunting and I know I'll be ok...with the Lord's help..we'll be fine.

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  Posted by Paulina Tue Oct 20, 2009 1:50am PDT

  ya. i think u should move to florida, maybe the thouhgt of u being away wil make him release how he needs u and how he trully feels about u.what he needs is space sista and if the two off u are ment to be, he will come and look for u, if he dont, then move on sista. have cofidence, faith and strength to move on.if u have devoted 8 of your preciouse life to him and he does'nt appreciate them then he's a fool and he does'nt deserve u

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