Expect? Probably Not.
Hoping? Most definitely, if not that night then in the near future!
One of the primary differences between men and women is how they approach dating.
Generally speaking a man considers the possibility of having sex with a woman long before there is a date!
The minute he asks a woman for her phone number or her email address he is indicating that he is physically attracted to her.
He could care less if she’s a waitress, teacher, lawyer, doctor, or unemployed.
For most men when it comes to women it all begins with physical attraction.
She caught his eye, stimulated him, and caused him to imagine what it would be like to make love or have sex with her. Anything beyond that is icing on the cake.
This is how it has been for billions of years.
It would be very naïve for a woman to believe a man is asking her out to spend his hard earned money simply to enjoy conversation and have some laughs with her.
Most men would rather do that with their male friends.
Albeit if you asked them point blank most would deny their ulterior motive.
There is but one reason why he asked you out and not the girl sitting next to you.
He's physically/sexually attracted to YOU!
Does that make men no good? Shallow?
Not at all, it's just how God wired them to be.
Besides the fact that men are visual creatures by nature there are some real biological reasons why sex may come across their minds more often than it does to women.
His sex organs are outside and not tucked inside his body. Throughout the day the most sensitive part of his body is rubbing against his underwear, pressing against his inner thigh, or pushed up against his zipper. The sight of an attractive woman, a vivid imagination, and the juices are flowing in no time especially if he is young.
There will never be a female equivalent to Hugh Hefner, an 80 year old woman wearing dentures lounging around the house in her pajamas and robe surrounded by a group of 20 something year old Brad Pitt look a-like men waiting for their turn to jump into bed with her.
Simply put, men place a lot more value on the attractiveness of women than their financial stability.
There’s a reason why so many cosmetic companies only market to Women those creams, make up, and lotions that claim to hide stretch marks, remove crow’s feet & wrinkles, get rid of spider veins, various weight loss diets, botox injections, cosmetic surgeries and so forth…etc It’s because men generally place a lot more value on a woman’s appearance than women place on a man's appearance.
The only thing men worry about is losing their hair!
Having said that if he is successful, powerful, and rich he will have no problems attracting young beautiful women to his side.
One could argue that the woman is only with him because he has money but the truth is we are all with people because they have “something” that attracts us.
None of us wants anyone that has "nothing" going for himself. We all have our own laundry list of requirements for a mate. Ideally we all want to settle down with someone that has the full package.
A person we are attracted to, who is financially stable, shares our same values and outlook on life in most instances. The main difference in our list is our priorities. For most men the number one requirement is they have to be physically attracted to their mate.
Knowledge Is Power!
As a woman now that you know for certain this man asked you out because he ultimately would like to have sex with you it should not come as a shock or surprise when he makes his move.
There should be no offense taken knowing he desires you because (you knew his motives the minute he asked you out).
There are far worse things than having a man be sexually attracted to you.
One example is having NO man on earth finding you sexually attractive.
Having said that you are not obligated to have sex with any man because he took you out!!!
However with this newfound knowledge of his “motives” it would be best not to accept invitations from men (you cannot remotely see the possibility of you having a romantic adventure with).
1. You’d be wasting his time and money.
Both of which he should be using on a woman who is actually attracted to him.
2. You'd be wasting your time and most likely boring yourself to tears all the while preparing for how you are going to avoid his attempt at a good-night kiss or reject his seductive moves.
Accepting dates from men simply to fill up your calendar rarely leads to having a great time.
You would be better off going out with men YOU are interested in and attracted to.
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