User post: How do you keep it fun?

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  Posted by hotmom24 Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:18pm PDT

  well if u have kids i know mine are a big turn off. especially when i've been dealing w/them all day long so make it a day of you and him togther.send the kids to grandma's for the weekend. and go on a date. like old time don't speak of the kids just keep it about yourself. then you'll start the motor for how creative to get.

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  Posted by CrazyDoug Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:20pm PDT

  As a guy, I can tell you how very hot it is when she gets me going in a place where I can't do anything about it. Send dirty texts to him at work and even dirty pictures and he will come home decidedly interested. Also, enough cannot be said about taking each other in places outside the bedroom. I like to mix it up with my girlfriend and lift her onto the kitchen counter or she will stradle me in a recliner. Be creative and you will never lose that spark.

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  Posted by Joboo027 Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:20pm PDT

  each of you write down different things you want to do / try and put them in a box. then take turns drawing one out and do what's on the paper. you can do different themes ( doctor or nurse/patient, cops and robbers, etc). you can go to your favorite club and pick each other up like you are just meeting.....there are many ways to spice it up and keep it fun. David

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  Posted by cc Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:26pm PDT

  imagination creativity romance tantra make love to their mind and body it can take days weeks however long you can stand. read tantric sex sacred sex. I have read it now to find the other part to practice on I am woefully uneducated but optimistic

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  Posted by KatieP Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:31pm PDT

  be adventurous, go places and out of no where tell him u want to do it...take him to the lake, or in the bedroom try new positions or just do it somewhere else in the house!

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  Posted by anna m Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:07pm PDT

  Be creative,,you know yourself and your man better than anyone. what makes him tick? change it up...im constently trying to find dif ways to change it up in the bedroom, you are so not the only women in fear her man will get bored or yourself will get bored. Take him with you to a naughty naughty wear shop and just brows with him see what catches your eye, and what catches his!,,,It just may be he will let you in on a few requests or secreats you didn't know! If going togethers not an option go by yourself and see how creative you can be after looking through the goods,,oils, lotions, and toys work wonders and start one hell of a conversation between to lovers.

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  Posted by KittyKat Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:09pm PDT

  I love the idea Joboo027 has. Its something different and exciting. What me and my man do if we want to spice things up is have sex in places other than the bedroom. all over the house. It works.

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  Posted by Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:13pm PDT

  hello/im/m/29/frome in iran

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  Posted by None Wed Aug 19, 2009 5:28am PDT

  People, life in general becomes repetitive and boring, why is everyone so obsessed about always having to spice this and that, of course once in a while you don't want some chinese food, suddenly you dare to try some restaurant that you have never tried, but most of the time honestly, sometimes it works staying with what you know as long as you are happy

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  Posted by Phil Wed Aug 19, 2009 8:19am PDT

  Try anal sex and have him grab your hair. Or a ----- in the shower. A little nastiness goes a long way. Have fun!

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