So a little history first...my bf and I have been together for
three years officially, sure we have had our ups and downs but we
have stayed together this whole time and have a good relationship.I
trust him with all my heart I really do, which brings me to my
question. What do you think of my bf saying on next Friday he
wanted to go to his friend (his bests friends) house to go out to a
bar and whatever and that he would probably sleep there, as they
would all be drinking. Now he also doesnt have a car by the way.
Now I am 22 & he is 27, we have lived together for the past 2
years. Call me old fashioned but I just think there's no reason
why he can't go out and have a good time and then come later
that night. So should I tell him to go have a good time, or tell
him I don't want him to go???
UPDATE: to all those responding thanks. I guess i should explain
more...i DO NOT think he is going to cheat. this is not what this
is about at all. First he is 27 and he has no car because we are
fine with one. He works close to his job (in walking distance
even), i do not support him. We split the rent 50/50 and he pays
all other utilites/bills. I do trust him, and i trust the
friend's house that hes going to ( which is a guy BTW). I
wouldnt care even if they were going to a strip club even, but
thats not really my bf's thing, so they (a group of guys) will
head to a bar play pool/drink a little and head back to his friends
house where he will be recording. My thing is i DO NOT MIND 100%
him going, i do not care what time he comes in, only i do not think
it is 'morally or eithically' right for two people in a
comminted relationship to not come home to your partner to your
bed. I feel I may be being selfish thinking this way but i dont
think he will cheat at all(if he was going to i know if doesnt
matter when or where).