User post: My boyfriends gets mad at me for not wanting to have sex!

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  Posted by urassismine2 Sun Nov 8, 2009 8:19am PST

  There in, lies the problem. It sounds like you both have moved from "love to lustful". For him, it may no longer be about how he feels about you. His internals may be mainlining on one specific area,..of you, an not the total you. It may be all about the point of it all. You naked, an him acting like your starving him! Sometimes, when couples marginalize sex(to much), it becomes the bore that you make it. When you do what you do so much that its like eating nothing but one thing, An that one thing only,You wear it out. Its not special anymore. It becomes commonplace, without any mystic and this behavior has to be controlled by the both of you. This situation causes arguments and fear of losing someone, that you think you love. Some guys will try to wear you out, if you let them. The first rule is "you". Too much, so that it becimes an issue should probably be talked about with a serious tonality, about how you feel.

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