User post: Should a man call and/or email me everyday if we're dating and having sex?

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  Posted by Business Traveler Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:15pm PST

  Wow! That is expecting a lot. Are you Boyfriend and Girlfriend, exclusive or just bed buddies? Do you live together? If you do and you see each other every night, stop being insecure, it is ok for people to have a busy work schedule. If you are just starting out, then share your communication level expectation with him. If he is unable to deliver then you are not right for one another.

  Keep in mind, for guy’s if you set a goal, he might fill the quota just to fill it. What I mean is quantity of communication not quality. You have to decide what is more important to you, quantity or quality?

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  Posted by ThinkingReal Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:17pm PST

  Hello there, well he should at least call a couple times a week, and diffinatly return calls etc, i personally think its cool to space it out a bit, even when you dont want to, it makes him miss you, and wonder what your doing..lol..lol.. Be Well-TR

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  Posted by Rosalie Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:18pm PST

  I think he should atleast out of respect for you if you are intimate call, text, email IM... or something atleast once a day.

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  Posted by Drea2up Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:24pm PST

  I'm not sure what you meant to say at the end here when you wrote

  "he may be like me for an ltr."

  I don't think it's too much to ask to hear from him at least once a day, that is if you are in an exclusive relationship that you both intend to move foward into the future with and have discussed this.

  My Man calls me between 1 and 6 times a day on average, some days more.

  Sometimes men don't know what we expect from them though, and it's just that simple. Tell him what you expect from him and why, and what it means to you when he does and when he doesn't call everyday.

  If you have already had these conversations and he still does not contact you daily, or respond to your attempts to contact him, then something is not right, IMHO.

  XOxo~Drea

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  Posted by 2 Damn Defiant Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:36pm PST

  no, then you'd be tired of looking at each other all the time!!!

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  Posted by Miss Independent Tue Nov 18, 2008 11:13pm PST

  know wer u stand gurl...^_^

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  Posted by ♥~♥MaggieRed♥~♥ Tue Nov 18, 2008 11:21pm PST

  ?"

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  Posted by patrick Tue Nov 18, 2008 11:33pm PST

  icalled,and tex my girl every day she broke up with me,I told her that hearing her sexy voice made my day.

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  Posted by Miss Independent Tue Nov 18, 2008 11:57pm PST

  nice one legalladd04 ,sorry to hear about the break up but the reason was funny though (peace)^_^

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  Posted by anne Wed Nov 19, 2008 12:15am PST

  Yes, if you think he is the one. A relationship is built by communicating each other. You must and HE MUST want to hear your voice every day.

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