User post: Should you take an EX back after cheating... What if they beg ?

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  Posted by Mr. CEO Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:16am PST

  well as they say once a cheater always a cheater adn yall been apart for 2 years, let it go

  It's time to move on Mz. lady

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  Posted by bryce Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:16am PST

  not just no but heck no

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  Posted by "A-me" Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:17am PST

  If you are not feeling it then theres your answer right there...i dont believe once a cheat always a cheat but....ask your self would u ever b able to trust him again and if the answer is no then u will never have anything...cause without trust there is no relationship...he made his bed dont feel bad for him....just let him lay in it.. :) good luck!

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  Posted by JJ Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:17am PST

  its all on you babe does it feel right? if so do it take it slow if not just be friends.

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  Posted by Lindsey Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:20am PST

  wellif you really dont feel the smae as you did then screw him, because no matter what , once a cheater always a cheater, try to hook him up with someone of just plain ignore him & if hes still in the stalker mode just tell him, ( i know its not nice but if you want him to back off then do this ) just tell him you have someone els in your life, make up a name & tell him youve been dating for a while & maybe he'll back off & if not, thennn its time to actually do something about it, im not sure what after tht but im sure youll figure out something

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  Posted by Super Abuelita Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:21am PST

  If you don't feel the same, you aren't soulmates!

  Trust is something that has to be earned, not given.

  Don't go there,my friend.

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  Posted by Super Abuelita Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:23am PST

  If you don't feel the same, you aren't soulmates!

  Trust is something that has to be earned, not given.

  Don't go there,my friend.

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  Posted by David B Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:25am PST

  Don't take him back. Go on with your life and if your ex can't take the hint it might be time to get restraining order as he might be the type that won't take no for an answer.

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  Posted by Cam37 Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:26am PST

  I personally don't think I could ever trust someone again after they did that to me. Since trust is a key factor in a relationship, it just wouldn't work. On the other hand, if you still have feelings for him (although you say you do not) then sometimes your heart speaks louder that your head. But in this case it sounds like your gut instinct is not to go back there again and that is what you should go with.

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  Posted by moparbabe2 Thu Dec 4, 2008 10:26am PST

  my advice to you is to not put up with a cheater. once a cheater always a cheater, but if you are tired and confused take time one day go to a sa and relax just clear your mind. it works, believe me i have been through it twice.

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