User post: Should You TAlk To Your Ex Or Not?

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  Posted by Brenda S Fri Nov 6, 2009 9:36am PST

  If he cheated on you don't fool yourself into thinking he won't do it again.

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  Posted by SunShine Fri Nov 6, 2009 9:41am PST

  change your phone number. he is a *****

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  Posted by Dee Fri Nov 6, 2009 9:42am PST

  I would just remain friends if thats possible. Once a cheat, always a cheat! If you go back to him, you are secretly saying "It's okay to cheat on me". Is that what you want? There are plenty of men out there,looking for the same thing, so, no I would'nt go running back into his arms, but you can still be friends. You just have to heal first. Remember it was his mistake, not YOURS!

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  Posted by vixenvena Fri Nov 6, 2009 9:46am PST

  If he cheated on you once, he'll do it again. Notice how he's not at your feet with 'I'm sorry' or trying to acknowledge his awful behavior and the awful way he treated you. If someone acknowledges their issues (without your requests for them to do so) and attempts to change then they may be worth giving them a chance. This guy is not doing that. He's trying to fish to get you back in and he'll just cheat on you again. If you take him back, he'll just do all that awful stuff he did to you the first time and you'll be affirming to him that you have no self-respect and he can just walk all over you. You deserve better than that. Eliminate all contact with him. Pick yourself up. Dust yourself off. And never let any man disrespect you again.

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  Posted by Org_2010.Tiff Fri Nov 6, 2009 9:48am PST

  If I was in your situation I would actually give him another chance... I mean really?? If it'b 3months you two were seperated and now he's running back it obviously means he cares for you and realized his mistake. But it's always your final decision. If you think you can let him back in without hurting yourself then do it. If not then..on to the next :-)

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  Posted by Emma Mae Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:04am PST

  PS Personally, I wouldnt take him back but I sure would show him what he was missing by being a cheating dog the first and ONLY go round.

  Hugs again

  Emma Mae

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  Posted by STRAWBERRY Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:12am PST

  It's best to run for the nearest exit. He's just testing you out so it's best you don't fall for it. Find someone who will treat you like a queen and has your best interest at heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  Posted by Dhikra Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:19am PST

  DONT GO BACKWARDS!!!..ERASE HIS NUMBER.

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  Posted by JulieD Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:19am PST

  I would never trust a cheat again i was cheated on and give him another chance for him to only go and do it again. As the saying goes once a cheat always a cheat, he is only trying to hurt you again so tell him no way boyo your on your own .

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  Posted by Marlene Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:25am PST

  welllll....... you should of asked him if he remember that you two DID break up..., sure you may still have feelings for him, but you shouldn't give in, maybe both you and him can stay as friends, but make sure you both act and are friends instend of acting and being a couple... but thats just me saying... =)

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