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Sunday, November 29, 2009

User post: The French Discover Another Great Sex Secret

Taking love and relationship advice from French preside Nicolas Sarkozy might seem a little counter-intuitive. After all, this is the man whose wife left him after his public extramarital affairs. But taking sex advice from him? That's something we can endorse.

The froggy prez has been on a serious exercise regimen, and in the past 10 months has dropped nine pounds and two pants sizes. But there's a not-so-evident benefit as well: improved sex life.

Sarkozy's trainer, Julie Imperiali, revealed the secret to her performance-enhancing routine: focus on the perineum (the area between the anus and the penis or vagina).

"Sexual relations are better if the male perineum is in good shape. The problems of premature ejaculation are often due to the perineum," Imperiali told the London Telegraph.  

Keeping the perineum in shape is helpful for women as well—ever heard of Kegel exercises? Usually promoted as a way to prevent incontinence for pregnant women and  seniors, these exercises strengthen your pelvic floor, which can lead to better sex, more intense orgasms and generally make you more aware of your nether-regions—always a good idea.

Imperiali explains it like this: "You have to imagine that you have a burning need to urinate and hold it in. That works for men as well as women." A quick Google reveals tons of great Kegel regimens. The Mayo Clinic has a good one.

But Sarkozy's improved between-the-sheets-time isn't do to Kegel's alone. According to ABC News, lots of studies have shown a link between being in shape and better sex. ABC spoke to the chief science officer of The American Council on Exercise, who said squats, holding a plank position and arm-strengthening exercises are other moves that can boost your bedroom enjoyment.

Just another reason to stick with your New Year's resolutions.

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  • Rae's Avatar
    Posted by Rae Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:00pm PST

    Awesome, squeezing away as I type! hehe.-Rachel.

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  • Susan's Avatar
    Posted by Susan Sat Jan 24, 2009 5:34am PST

    I started doing kegals over 28 years ago when I was pregnant with my first child. It always made sense that this exercise had great value, especially for sex. Rule of thumb, perform kegal at all stop signs and red lights when you're out driving. I have been told I'm nice a tight.

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  • Abul's Avatar
    Posted by Abul Sat Jan 24, 2009 9:32am PST

    post

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  • Stop Hating's Avatar
    Posted by Stop Hating Sat Jan 24, 2009 1:14pm PST

    "Froggy prez?" That's derogatory.

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  • Natalie S's Avatar
    Posted by Natalie S Sat Jan 24, 2009 6:36pm PST

    Everybody knows this. I don't see how it's news.

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  • Getachew's Avatar
    Posted by Getachew Sun Jan 25, 2009 10:35am PST

    nice

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  • Dr C.'s Avatar
    Posted by Dr C. Sun Jan 25, 2009 2:02pm PST

    I agree with Natalie S. Kegel exercises (for women, and more recently for men too) have been around since 1948. They help prevent urinary incontinence in women after childbirth as well as menopause. They also intensify orgasm because they are same muscles that have rhythmic contractions when we come. For men, they can identify the muscle as the same one that lifts up their erection towards their belly when they contract it.

    But I guess if you haven't heard of this in the last 69 years (coincidence?), then it's news to you!

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  • Dr C.'s Avatar
    Posted by Dr C. Sun Jan 25, 2009 2:09pm PST

    Correction...only 60-61 years. I guess I have something else on my mind!

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  • Tahir Ali's Avatar
    Posted by Tahir Ali Sun Jan 25, 2009 2:10pm PST

    life is love and love is life don...............hahahhahaha bi sweet smile

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  • Eva's Avatar
    Posted by Eva Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:37pm PST

    I am not in a relationship at the present time.I appreciate the information. Thank-you. Eva Marie

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