User post: Thing guys wonder about in relationships

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  Posted by B. J. Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:28pm PDT

  1. Yes. I've thought of another man while with my man. However, he brought it up. Teasing me that I was fantasizing about a certain rock star I find attractive.

  2. Yes. I've flirted.

  3. Only to the teasing stage. No kissing or touching other than a hand on a shoulder or such.

  4. Yes. I also suspected and knew when he had cheated.

  5. No. I told him. So did all his friends who I made sure saw me flirting/leaving with the other guy. It was payback for his cheating on me and all of his coworkers knowing and calling to tell me.

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  Posted by Aurora Jette Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:41pm PDT

  1. Yes. I'll admit it.

  2. Yes, I'll admit it.

  3. Yes... I kissed someone (he had already banged my sister AND cousin)

  4. Yes, I didn't find out about my sister for a good two years after.

  5. No, he found out the next day. Wasn't something I could keep a secret.

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  Posted by mommaofsun Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:57pm PDT

  1. Yes I have, but my hubby was involved in that fantasy.

  2. Yes I have.

  3. It never went any further than a look and a comment.

  4. Yes. I think he is now, but I have no proof.

  5. I have never cheated on anyone.

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  Posted by Wed Mar 25, 2009 3:20pm PDT

  1. No, not really. Dont need to fantisize about someone else while having sex with your partner when the sex is that good!

  2. Yes

  3. Not very far, maybe a glance or casual conversation.

  4. Yes, but usually a woman always knows.

  5. Yes

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  Posted by Skittlez Wed Mar 25, 2009 3:51pm PDT

  1. No

  2. Yes. but nothing more

  3. yes. but nohing else. not even a handshake

  4. yes and it turned out i was right.... both times

  5. No. never have never will. if i feel the need to cheat on you then i shouldnt be with you

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  Posted by Jennifer Wed Mar 25, 2009 4:24pm PDT

  *No never thought of making love to anyone other than who im with.

  *Not intentionally flirted but maybe during conversation been a little flirtasious

  *Flirting well got me into my now relationship with a guy i worked with!

  *Totally suspected my ex of cheating...and so was!

  *I have cheated on an ex in the past...totally horrible...but no he never found out.

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  Posted by ash Wed Mar 25, 2009 4:25pm PDT

  1. No

  2. Yes

  3. Friendly kisses

  4. Yes

  5. Almost

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  Posted by Queen_of_air01 Wed Mar 25, 2009 5:34pm PDT

  1. Have you ever thought (or do you currently think) of another guy while making love to your man?

  Actually no...I only save the fantasies for my "alone" time

  2. Have you flirted with another guy while out with your friends?

  I am told I am a flirt..but I dont think so, I am just friendly

  and if they get the wrong idea from that, its not my fault. Since when I flirt I use body language alot..and when Im friendly I refrain from

  doing that.

  3. How far have you allowed flirting to go (without engaging in sex) while in a relationship? He kissed me on the neck while out on

  the dance floor

  4. Have you ever suspected your man of cheating, but didn't know for sure? yes,..he married her within a month ..could never tell if he was cheating on her with me..or on me with her..(make sence?)

  5. Have you ever cheated in a relationship, but your man never found out?

  ...sadly yes...Felt awful afterwards..but it was actually helpfull

  since I noticed that the only reason why I felt bad was because I had broken a promise and not the possibily that I might have hurt him...

  so that was That relationship lol

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  Posted by Leslie A Wed Mar 25, 2009 6:34pm PDT

  i plea the fifth to all of the above lol

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  Posted by Ting Ting Wed Mar 25, 2009 8:12pm PDT

  love is blind

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