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Friday, December 4, 2009

Venus retrograde horoscopes

Venus retrograde
What can each sign expect as Venus turns retrograde in Aries? Venus retrograde can bring more confrontations in all of our relationships, encouraging us to look a little more closely at what needs working on. During this Venus cycle, it’s possible to see conflicts that arise as arrows pointing to what needs attention, time and care. We may not want to see these arrows, but they will be there, offering opportunities to change and grow. Though all of us have an opportunity to revision, rethink, and renew our Venusian selves during this time, everyone may experience it just a little differently. Read below to see how your Sun, Moon or Rising sign might experience the Venus retrograde period:

Aries

With Venus, the planet of love and relationship, going retrograde in your sign on March 6, you are going to need to cultivate patience in matters of the heart. Since fast-forward and "full speed ahead" are what you do best, this retrograde cycle could present you with a bit of a challenge. Luckily, Aries thrives on challenges, so use your Ram-like determination to meet this one head on, striving to go more slowly even when you’d rather break the speed limit.

Taurus

Venus, the ruling planet of Taurus, goes retrograde on March 6, giving you a chance to look more deeply at your approach to love. You may find yourself reviewing relationships from the past, or thinking about how things “used to be” with your current partner. You can use this time to your advantage by drawing on your sensual nature to reconnect with your lover or to think more carefully about what you might want in a future partner.

Gemini

Flirting is second nature to you, Gemini, and you thrive on meeting and interacting with all kinds of people. With Venus going retrograde in your 11th house of friends and community, you may find that someone you had thought of as only a friend has taken your relationship more to heart. Take your time in figuring out what your feelings are before you make a response, as your first impulse may not be the best one.

Cancer

Your sensitive and dreamy nature makes you easy to love, Cancer, but can also leave you open to hurt feelings. As Venus travels retrograde in your house of public reputation, you may encounter situations where you find it difficult to hide your heart from behind your sturdy crab shell. You may encounter individuals from your past who stir up old hurts and memories. Try to protect your tender insides while still maintaining a connection with the outside world.

Leo

Leo, being in love makes you shine like the star you are. You may find that right now you are discovering romance in unexpected places, and are having to realign your ideas about what love is. As Venus goes retrograde in your house of higher education and travel, you have a chance to gain a whole new perspective on matters of the heart. This might mean releasing some old beliefs and philosophies, but it will ultimately bring you to a more truthful place in your relationship.

Virgo

This promises to be a deep and powerful time in love and romance, Virgo, as Venus goes retrograde in your 8th house of sex and intimacy. Shadows from the past may veil your relationship with your current partner, and it is up to you to use your refined skills of discrimination and discernment to decide which of these patterns to keep and which you are ready to release.

Related: Do you love your man for his Venus?

Libra
You are in the spotlight now, as Venus in retrograde highlights your 7th house of relationships. How do you balance your own needs for independence and freedom with your innate desire to meet others' needs? You may find that you need to go back to the past for answers, either through encounters with old lovers, or for another round with your current partner on an issue that just won’t seem to go away. Use your Libra skill at finding balance to navigate this time diplomatically.

Scorpio

Mundane matters can hold more weight in love and relationships now than ever before. You may need to revisit agreements you have made with your partner around day-to-day activities such as cooking and cleaning, in order to keep your relationship running smoothly. Single Scorpios may devote more time to self-care, with an eye to how this could benefit you in future relationships. Diet and exercise can be a way for you to demonstrate the love for yourself that you may soon see reflected back in the eyes of another.

Sagittarius

You may have to take another look at how you express yourself in love and romance now, Sag, as Venus goes retrograde in your 5th house of self-expression. It’s possible that your love target may misunderstand a gesture on your part, and you might have some explaining to do. Try to be patient and keep your sense of humor, as you navigate the sometimes tricky waters of love. Remember that you thrive when you have a chance to grow, and try to see this time as an opportunity to learn more and expand your understanding of others.

Capricorn

Old memories of family and the past may return to you now, Cap, affecting your most personal relationships. Now is a good time to try and turn your attention towards home and your personal life, and sort through your innermost thoughts and feelings about yourself. Trying to escape into work or other pursuits will just slow this lesson down even more. Turn your attention to those closest to you and take the time to reflect on how your relationship with yourself affects your relationship with others.

Aquarius

Aquarius, you may find that communication is an area of focus in love and romance now. With Venus turning retrograde in your 3rd house, you may need to take more time explaining yourself to the object of your affection, as they may not understand you on your first attempt. You are known for being a little outside the box, so it’s no surprise that sometimes you have to work a little harder to connect with others. Try to be patient now, and take the time you need to get your point across to your partner or loved one.

Pisces

Venus retrograde in your 2nd house of values could be making you take another look at how you value your own time and energy in relationships. Are you giving more than you’re getting, Pisces? Does your partner take you for granted or value what you have to offer? Now might be a time for exploring these questions and possibly reaffirming your worth to yourself and your significant other. Though your gifts and skills may be unique, they are still valuable, so spend time meditating on who you are and what you give to others during this retrograde cycle.

About the Author
Fern Feto Srping

Fern Feto Spring, M.A., has been practicing astrology since 1990. She is a graduate of Steven Forrest’s astrological apprenticeship program, and has a Master’s Degree from Sonoma State University. Fern is the co-author (with Jen Zurick) of “Simply Sacred: Everyday Relationship Magic,” a just released book from Clean Sisters Press. Contact her for readings and astrology classes (on-line and in person) at www.wisestars.net.

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  • charbaby's Avatar
    Posted by charbaby Thu Mar 5, 2009 3:55pm PST

    Im in love with a leo but married to a libra and i dont know what to do.

    The leo is so passionate and the libra is so angry and confuse and at the same time want the relationship with me but doesn't want me to be happy with him unless im doing what he wants me to do and im so damn tired of it!

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  • Michael's Avatar
    Posted by Michael Sat Mar 7, 2009 7:06pm PST

    I too am in love with a Leo...but don't really know how she feels. Friends, yes, but more? A wildcard.

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  • bridge*'s Avatar
    Posted by bridge* Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:05pm PDT

    this Venus in retro is pulling on a little too much. im going out with a Leo male but he is so immature and doesn't think of anyone but himself, and im a Taurus female, and i love him i don't love him scenario. he has been mooching off me rent free with no job, and i broke up with him tonight.

    is this retrograde not a good time to make hasty decisions, but then again, he doesn't try to get a job until now.?

    im a Taurus i need some things some time to see im loved, and im the one giving giving giving......

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  • damaris's Avatar
    Posted by damaris Mon Mar 30, 2009 8:15am PDT

    I been reading on venus retrograde in aries and I have been very surprised 2 find out how much my relationship has changed almost the same day this happened. I am an Aries sun, Leo moon, Scorpio ascendant and I have my venus positioned in Aries also. I am turning 17 very soon and I have been ina relationship with a boy who was my best friend for 2 years n (was) with him officially for 10 months. I completely fell in love with him. I know iim young buh im not an immature or stupid girl and I can say that I don’t trust or jus love someone quite easily… but he means a lot to me and has changed me and made me want 2 be a better person.. made me want 2 be somewhat like him. he culd give love so easily and freely. we were so comfortable with eachother.. I had never imagined somethin so real and I know we were meant to be in eachothers lives. he is a Libra sun, Libra moon, AND Libra ascendant. His venus is positioned in Scorpio.

    Come around… March 5 ( our 10 month mark) things started 2 be rocky… backwards even. I went through a really bad week beginning that following monday and I was emotionally in need of Angel (that’s him) more than ever… buh he seemed so distant.. he’s been busy with baseball and work and skool activities buh it never was a big problem… buh it seems that he all of a sudden, slowly started to not care or take pride in me like he once did. my Libra began to turn cold… wen I wuld touch him, as if tellin him to come closer to me, there wuld be no warmth coming off of him anymore. He began to be so focused on himself and what he was doing and about things he wanted that its like I started to see myself fall down his list of priorities. it wuldnt matter to him that I needed him to be with me. its like it didn’t matter 2 him that I felt alone… he was goin to work n makin money n getting good grades n coming up in baseball… and I did support him. go to his games and root for his team even tho they lost everygame… id go just 2 be with him cuz I wanted 2. buh inside I knew the love wasn’t the same. its like he started to become selfish and jus worry abt himself..which is uncharacteristic for him…bcuz selfish is one thing I know he isn’t. and on march 9, wen the moon was in virgo, I started 2 tell him (n got emotional, angry even) abt how I felt n how unhappy I was… I didn’t wana leave the relationship cuz I believed in us… he said he didn’t waana leave either but he said that his life is complicated and hard and confusing… like mine isn’t, u know?? he said he culdnt be with me anymore…. and I didn’t take it well… bcuz I wanted 2 be with him, I wanted 2 help him n face our difficulties together as a team. I guess his excuse is… that he’s too busy for a relationship… too busy for me… idk… I just want to know if anyone here can pleasse help me understand what happened and help me prepare for what is going to happen in the future wehn venus goes back into pisces then again, into my sign of aries. I am very interested in astrology and believe in it bcuz it makes sense 2 me. id like to know more about what is going on in this situation I am in… bcuz skool restarts ina bout a week and I have 2 see him again. iAnd I can’t hide from him.. he has 5 of my classes and we r in the same chorus…I jus want 2 go back with a little more understannding and wisdom. if I understand better, maybe I will be able 2 let go if its really the end…. he said it was the end… I asked him where I stood and he said tha he didn’t want me to hold on 2 anything. but he still wuld like 2 be friends…. so I haven’t been talking to him lately and we act like we do not know eachother.. I said I didn’t wana be his friend cuz I culdnt.. idk how 2 act.. I know ill jus fall in love w/ him again… but I still feel like he misses me n still loves me… its just a feeling tho… like he’s puttin up a front to everybody.. but idk… it culd prolly jus be me. Help. Please.

    -damaris

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  • elizar's Avatar
    Posted by elizar Sun Jun 14, 2009 5:58am PDT

    Libras are really cool. If he says its ova ... hunny its ova

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