Love + Sex

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  Posted by irishdon1939 Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:13pm PDT

  Yes. Twice. First time she was breaking up with me. I lasted all afternoon. The second time was just before my 38 radiation treatments and it lasted all weeken.

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  Posted by hableart Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:37pm PDT

  HA HA HA, this man I know was cheating on his fiance, when she found out he was having an affair he claimed it was a mercy f**k.

  I never heard that phrase before, I guess he was feeling sorry for himself. loser.

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  Posted by Idaho Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:57pm PDT

  I didn't know it then, but I know it now. I was given the mercy f*ck before my-fiance left me for a co-worker of his.

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  Posted by moondrop824 Mon Jun 30, 2008 10:39pm PDT

  hey some of us are picky and to be goin around giving mercy f's is just nasty. it's like "I know he's not the cutest but i'll get used of looking at him/her to make them feel better"... yuck.

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  Posted by phuketvac Tue Jul 1, 2008 2:27am PDT

  I don't believe in mercy F**ks, I wouldn't take one, I wouldn't give one, but then again I do date classy women.

  When I have sex, it is all about the thrill, excitement and heat of the moment, and it never last for less that 2 hours.

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  Posted by wandaleoyaya Tue Jul 1, 2008 6:33am PDT

  I am not particularly interested in that type of sex,Nobody wants sympathy sex it only creates more fuel to the fire;sort of speak.For the simple reason the person who is giving has evil tendency to break a person spirit that wants to receive the intimacy.It only displays a form of power someone has over someone elses emotions.Bottom line it is not good to take advantage of someone pain.It will come back to hurt you twice as hard as you have hurt someone that you once care for.THE GOLDEN RULE STILL IS PARAMOUNT WHERE THAT IS CONCERN! WANDALOCKS

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  Posted by not2bplayed Tue Jul 1, 2008 6:46am PDT

  I never gave a mercy f**k, just becaues i might feel sorry for you, exspecially if i;m not sexually attracted to you i can't. Me, i have to be attracted to you for anything do even be thought of going down. Yeah i had guys take me out numbers of times, but that don't mean you will get in to these panties.

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  Posted by Growing up is hard to do... Tue Jul 1, 2008 7:35am PDT

  While I haven't actually had mercy sex I did give Sympathy head... So Oral ses yes... I was in college and a male friend of mine was going through a very rough time and he was in my room literally crying on my shoulders and it just kind of happened. Deffinately not boyfriend material or a guy I would seriously date. It made him feel 100 times better but I just kind of felt dirty... It was a one time occurence and the friendship survived.

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  Posted by .TIFF Tue Jul 1, 2008 9:48am PDT

  I've never had sex with someone because I felt sorry for them...Maybe I felt sorry for them in different areas of their life...I have however had sex with people I was not really attracted to almost to see/test if it could work...never seemed to work. But it's not like the sex wasn't also sorta for me too...what's the difference??

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  Posted by Kat Tue Jul 1, 2008 10:00am PDT

  when i broke up with my bf after he had sex with another girl, he begged me over and over to give him 'sympathy sex' as a sort of 'goodbye'. I refused over and over, cuz i refuse to be a weakling who gives up their body for 'one last time'. I'd rather cry in my room alone all night over the breakup than cry during sex with "NOW" ex bf, as we do it for the last time before we go our separate ways. it is SO STUPID!!!!!!!!! its like what one person said in their comment.. the person abusing the power and control they have over you by dumping you, and then having the last word by stealing your emotions and making you feel everything is ok for 'one last time'. NO CHANCE IN heck I will degrade myself for that. and no one else should either

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