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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

What Do Women Look For?

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Hey I'm only 17-years old and may be too dense to completely understand love at the moment so I was wondering what women look for in men. I know what your thinking, I'm only 17, but I look like I could be 23 ( but not my point ).

I was recently in a relationship in which I thought I was in love because it lasted over a year, I also thought the girl I was in love with loved me equally, but I've come to the assumption that she was merely infatuated with me due to the things I did to her. ( Sexually, romantically, and everything in general.

With all that said, what do women look for, and how do you know if your partner is infatuated or actually in head over heels for you?
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  • Richard's Avatar
    Posted by Richard Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:03pm PDT

    there is none women can be and sometimes are just as devious as some men to get what they want take it slow. you sound like a true romantic like me but dont too rushy rush or you could end up a single dad like me that is raising your kids as the woman runs off to play.. take it slow belive me

    oh and dont be a fool rap your tool no matter what love state your in!!

    RC

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  • Richard's Avatar
    Posted by Richard Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:05pm PDT

    oh yea and im 23. just to show you i didnt folow my own advice.

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  • Fun_Gal09's Avatar
    Posted by Fun_Gal09 Sun Sep 13, 2009 11:08pm PDT

    I am a little older and still finding out what love is. Love is different for all people of any age. I have been married and than divorced only to find out that I never loved him. I am in a serious relationship and will be married next year. This time I know what love fells like. Not all the same people have the same love. As far as what women want well we change our minds every 3 seconds. Being yound is hard just wait till your 30 sitting at home with three kids wondering where you life went. Enjoy being 17 and not worry about falling in love and what women want. Here is the thing gorls from the age of 13 till about 23 are not looking to have a realationship. All they want is to have fun and use guys. Go and have fun dont worry you have the rest of your adult life to do that.

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  • Jessika's Avatar
    Posted by Jessika Mon Sep 14, 2009 6:39am PDT

    What women want in a man!!! They want something real you are 17-years old. So kan u be a real man I am not sayin u not a man.When u first meet a woman don't jump in to a realationship. Don't forget to RAP up.U say u look 23 is your mind on a 23years olds mind. What i mean when i say that is don't ack like u 17. Cuz most 17year olds ack like kids. Sometimes it depines on if u have an older woman or young...

    PS:Aiways

    stay on your grind

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  • Matt's Avatar
    Posted by Matt Mon Sep 14, 2009 6:41pm PDT

    Thanks for the comments all, I appreciate the advice.

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  • shelby lynn's Avatar
    Posted by shelby lynn Tue Sep 15, 2009 6:59pm PDT

    Im 17 too and It dont matter old to me some of us still dont know what love is , but to me what i look for In a guy Firstthay want u for u not is sex....And Not only say i love u show u (Not in A sexualy way)In little ways.Love to me U would lay thier life on line for them So they wont feel any pain,Or any heart break.And when u do have sex to them say (I love u during it) And Do NOT SAY(I love fukin u) Talk to thier friends and saisd yea I fuk her (Say I made Love to her ) BUT thats just me

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  • Breanna's Avatar
    Posted by Breanna Sat Sep 19, 2009 10:27am PDT

    Hey, I am 17yrs old as well, and i still am having a problem with seeing if a man is truly interested in me, of just lusting after me. For a guy, it depends on the girl i suppose. I think girls who are truly in love would probably try to seem less so, and maybe be a bit shy. First of all...don't rush it is my motto. I have several years. The right guy is out there. I just have to look hard enough! Hope that helps! Peace out and Rock on!!!

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