What Do You Really Want In A Man?

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  Posted by Cherish Tue Aug 5, 2008 4:10pm PDT

  I need someone who is first a man of God. Faith is essential because without it they could not understand or relate to me. I need someone who is intelligent, caring and supportive. I need a strong man who knows how to take the lead, but is humble enough to know when to follow. I want someone who is romantic and thoughtful. A man who is able to communicate on all levels. Honest, dependable, reliable, and faithful. Cheating would be a dealbreaker.

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  Posted by Bethknee Tue Aug 5, 2008 9:14pm PDT

  wat I look in for a man is trust, love, brains, cutness, sweetness, and any extras

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  Posted by Thu Aug 7, 2008 11:48pm PDT

  My boyfriend is on the dorky, awkward, intellectual side, and that's what I always adored in a man! I was never attracted to jocks, thugs, bada--es, etc-- just the pocket-protector, inhaler-needin' men. They know how to treat a woman right. I love any man whom I can hold a strong conversation with, whom I can discuss anything with, have fun and joke with, and I love a man who is willing to listen to my thoughts and concerns. My boyfriend does all of this and I fall in love with him EVERY DAY (3+ years together)! My ex wasn't like that; he beat me up :(

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  Posted by SolsticeAngel Sun Aug 10, 2008 11:10pm PDT

  I have been attracted to all kinds of men! There is not just one that I can say I like more! I think the list of qualities the man must posses is too long. the list I have is not necessarily a deal breaker if there are a few things on there that he doesn't have, it is my guideline to help me weed through the men who aren't worth my time. I have learned a lot during this time and that includes what I want in a man.

  I want someone who is loving, and patient, and romantic, and gentle, and non judgemental, and trustworthy, and secure (in himself)...like I said the list is long!!! I figure I should be somewhat picky so that I can be sure that this time I am truly happy! but they are still guidelines!

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  Posted by To much to handle Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:29am PDT

  I look for someone to make me smile and laugh. I'd want him to be romantic, funny, loyal, honest, and for me understanding. I've been through horrible relationships so someone who will listen and understand that i know i have to work on somethings and if your willing to stick by me and listen and be there for me then you got a good chance of gettin' a good woman on your side

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  Posted by Lady Phee Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:48am PDT

  i just want a guy who is tall, funny and who is comfortable being himself with me when we're with his freinds and/or family. someone who's not afraid to take chances and love me for just being the dorky girl that i am.

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  Posted by Frenchy Mon Oct 20, 2008 1:28am PDT

  I want a men that #1 can communicate well, #2 Can be trust worthy #3 knows the word compromise and lives by it, #4 is willing to fall in love, not hung on the PAST #5 someone that appreciates the intimate part of the relationship.....in that order too

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  Posted by Natalie Mon Nov 17, 2008 3:29pm PST

  I want a man, who's funny, understanding, a GREAT LOVER, OOh n a GREAT LOVER!! sex is a huge thang for me, sad but true!!

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