This is something I've wondered about for a very long time. When I was in college, I had a fling with another girl's boyfriend. I thought she was pretty, so therefore, in my mind, that made me prettier. I also knew that he was taking quite a risk sneaking around with me. That did wonders for my ego because I felt since he was taking such incredible risks to see me, then certainly that must mean I was worth all of the effort and energy he was putting forth in order for us to be together. It was an exciting, unpredictable time being his "secret lover", and I am left with many fond memories of the relationship. But I was 19, dumb, and a little girl compared to where I am today. Which leads me to my current question...
What exactly drives grown, mature, adult women to sleep with, and continue to be with, another woman's man? Is it an ego boost? The thrill of the challenge? An attraction to what appears to be a stable catch? And if one unknowingly gets caught up with a married man, what drives a woman to remain in that situation?
I really need clarity on this, as it continues to be a missing piece of the puzzle for me.
Danine Manette
http://www.ultimatebetrayal.com
What drives a woman to sleep with another woman's man?
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Posted by Fri Mar 27, 2009 2:57am PDT
Report Abusesome yall got it twisted for me i met this guy had boyfriends before him but neva fell for nothin he came along and everything changed .. nah neva knew bout her till half way thru the relationship but had already fell in love he was mah 1st love to be exact .. we was inseperable there was neva a day i wasnt without him .. we was inseperable .. he took me to work came to mah lunch n picked me up after work .. we was alike in every way same interests n erethin we did n liked .. no otha guy compared to him he was everything i eva dreamed .. i met his all his friends guys n females n we kikit all duh time mah whole famz loves him all mah brothaz get along wid him n kikit wit him all duh time .. ive talked 2 his fams on duh phone cuz dey ain 4rm here .. he ain married but stay wit his baby momma n nah havnt met her dont care too is been goin on now 2yrs and i cant imagine being wit nobody else .. yea she know bout me i know bout her too but i also know him inside n out
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Posted by Fri Mar 27, 2009 3:07am PDT
Report Abusei know things she dont care to even bother which made him turn away you could say .. we so in love we dont care what others say or think we been thru many trials n overcame each one n back on top .. i dont think im better then her or wanted what she had cuz i knew nothin of her from the get-go .. i fell in love and love conquers all!! nah it ain easy but nothin eva is .. im happy wit him as he is wit me and thats all that matters!!
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Posted by Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:41pm PDT
Report AbuseMy boyfriend is minding-f(ing) & getting mental bjs from a girl who is empowering him to break-up with me. He hasn't told her about his other cheats...
This is the kind of plain and very attention-seeking type of a girl who my bf would never even look over at once if it wasn't her constant instant messaging him. And this girl thinks she has power over me. Yes, she does, but not the way she thinks. Her self-importance to my bf and my life is so pathetic.
She's not playing the game right. She should have the self-confidence and worth to know that she doens't belong in our relationship. Walk away and if he follows, then she has him. But he is still with me, for whatever the reasons they may be.
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