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Sunday, November 29, 2009

What Men Want: 9 Rules For Watching Football With Guys

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Here I am with my sister a few years ago. Obviously, I was aware that #11 meant Matt Leinart. Everyone had a crush on him.

It’s football season, people! I’m psyched to see USC take on Notre Dame tomorrow. I’ll be watching with my family, at home in San Diego. The last time I watched football with a guy (youknowwho), he said I needed to do a better job of keeping track of who had the ball. So I decided to ask a few of my guy friends how a woman should act when she goes with a date to a football-watching party. Jason, Ross, Pete, and John all had a lot to say about this matter, so I’m glad I asked! The art of watching football is serious business, girls. Here are their tips for appropriate behavior on Game Day:

1. DON’T WEAR A PINK JERSEY
“A jersey isn't necessary unless you are a true fan. If you're wearing a player's jersey, you should know a lot about that player. T-shirts with team logos or colors are fine. Do not put your own name on a jersey unless you are under the age of 10. Don't wear pink versions of jerseys, t-shirts, etc.” —Pete, 29, Dallas

2. KNOW YOUR REFRESHMENT OPTIONS
“Drink beer. Out of the bottle. Solo cups are acceptable. Out of the can, not as hot.” —Ross, 31, Burbank, CA

“Really, the only acceptable drinks are beers, and the only acceptable beers are Coors, Miller, and Bud. Do NOT drink wine.” —Pete

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3. CHOOSE A SIDE WISELY
“Root for a team you actually like, not simply the one I happen to like. If you grew up in Philly but you are rooting for the Cowboys because I like them, I'll think you're not really interested in football and/or you’re a traitor to your city.” —Pete

“Root for whomever you like but not because their uniforms are cute. Have a favorite player or coach or something (but if it’s because he’s cute, keep that to yourself).”
—Ross

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My crush on USC’s coach, “Big Balls Pete”? I’ll keep that to myself, per Rule #3.


4. DO YOUR HOMEWORK
“Before you show up, you should know who is playing, who are the quarterbacks for each team, what each team's record is (or just generally if they are good or bad this year), and if there are any big news stories involving players from either team. This really isn't hard, just read the preview article on espn.com before the game.” —Pete

5. PAY ATTENTION
“While watching the game, you should know what the score is, who has the ball, what quarter it is, etc. Most of this information should be somewhere on the screen at all times.” —Pete

6. ASK QUESTIONS…DURING COMMERCIALS
“It’s okay if you don’t understand why a penalty was called or why the handsome quarterback man immediately threw the ball into the ground (to stop the clock), but ask at the commercial break. If you ask enough questions early on, by 4th quarter you should have a pretty good idea of what’s going on and dudes will feel like they taught you something.” —Ross

“Guys like to teach you about the game, so ask him to explain how the rules work. Learn to watch the game the way he sees it. It might not make too much sense at first, but your understanding will grow as more pieces of the game are revealed.” —Jason, 30, Phoenix

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7. RESPECT THE SPORT
“Do not criticize. If the rules don't make sense at first, don't give the 'that's dumb' response. The rules are there for a reason, and the decisions made by the coaches and players usually happen based off the rules. It is important to be open to learning the rules, and being dismissive is a turn-off.” —Jason

8. EASE UP ON THE TRIVIA, CLIFF CLAVEN
“Unless you're watching figure skating, never try to upstage a guy with sports trivia knowledge. I had a friend with a girlfriend that would constantly spew out stats like, 'Did you see so-and-so? They passed for 300 yards last week!' It was annoying—girls shouldn't try too hard to be one of the guys. Just show interest, cheer when appropriate, and it never hurts to offer to go get beers.” —John, 30, San Diego

9. SHOW OR FEIGN INTEREST
“If you become bored during a game...FAKE IT! There’s nothing more annoying to me than when a girl pulls out her BlackBerry and starts checking Facebook.” —John

“The best way to make yourself more attractive to a guy while watching football with guys is to appear to be a legitimate fan. You're not watching the game just to meet guys, or because your friend dragged you there, but because you like football and know something about the game. Basically, be comfortable and look like you're enjoying yourself and the game.” —Pete

Now, tell us: Do you watch football? With whom? Are you a die hard fan or a novice? What do you think of these rules? And why is it so hard for me to keep track of the ball? The ball is tiny!

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  • SEXY_K1TTEN's Avatar
    Posted by SEXY_K1TTEN Fri Oct 16, 2009 12:36pm PDT

    I PRACTICE THIS!!!! IT WORKS!!!

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  • katie's Avatar
    Posted by katie Fri Oct 16, 2009 12:59pm PDT

    Oh, Lord, I DESPISE pink jerseys!

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  • Ahleah G's Avatar
    Posted by Ahleah G Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:01pm PDT

    So much easier if you find a guy who doesn't like football! While I wasn't using that as a specific criterion it sure is a bonus to me. I think I know more about football than he does actually courtesy of my dad.

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  • SaS's Avatar
    Posted by SaS Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:15pm PDT

    I am dating someone who i obbsessed with Football and he first said he wouldnt be with a girl that didnt like football, so i got a little mad bc i aint a HUGE OMG FAN lol.. but he is a big fan of the colts, and i kept score for him one night when he didnt have the TV around and he appraciated that alot from me and my friend told me when an intereception was.. so i todl him about that.. and it got me brownie points lol.. i like to watch, jsut dont really get it.. but he is a HUGE football guy

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  • eaglegirl's Avatar
    Posted by eaglegirl Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:28pm PDT

    Uh, and what are the rules if I'm the fan and he isn't? I watch at home alone and he watches news/politics at his house on Sundays. Thank goodness there are 6 other days in the week.

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  • DavidV's Avatar
    Posted by DavidV Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:53pm PDT

    "ASK QUESTIONS…DURING COMMERCIALS"

    Umm, no. We want to encourage your interest, not dampen it. Plus, by commercial time the specifics of the situation you're asking about might be lost. Just be respectful of when important action is going on and wait that out, and don't blather questions non-stop.

    "SHOW OR FEIGN INTEREST - If you become bored during a game...FAKE IT!"

    Not just no, but hell no. Couples shouldn't have to spend every minute of free time together. If watching a football game is of zero interest to the girl, let that be one of the times you each do things you enjoy separately. This is far more a womanly mindset to think that the couple should have to go together to recreational activities one of them is known to dislike. A guy doesn't mind when his girl says "Football's not my thing, but you go watch the game and have fun." A guy also doesn't mind her saying "I know antiquing's not your thing, so it's OK if you don't want to come." Faking interest in an activity you dislike will annoy your date if it's seen through, and get you invited to more of the same in the future if it's not.

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  • Fanny's Avatar
    Posted by Fanny Fri Oct 16, 2009 2:10pm PDT

    I drink whatever the hell I want, thank you very much!

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  • Lyndsay's Avatar
    Posted by Lyndsay Fri Oct 16, 2009 3:40pm PDT

    LOL Are you serious...why is it such a big deal weather we know what going on or not with football....I can fake it. LOL

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  • Judy's Avatar
    Posted by Judy Fri Oct 16, 2009 5:42pm PDT

    i love to watch football. no need to practice this, since i'm already a fan of it. :)

    i am totally a die hard fan! i have my own jersey (not in pink, thank god!).

    plus i know everything that's going on.

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  • Sweet T's Avatar
    Posted by Sweet T Fri Oct 16, 2009 5:43pm PDT

    Don't know more than the guys? How is my good memory for stats upstaging a guy or trying too hard? Most men are impressed with the stats I know about my favorite sports, and they appreciate having an intelligent conversation about said sport with a woman. I educate them a bit, they educate me a bit. If they feel threatened, tough. Man up and deal with it: I am a FAN!!! If I was ever sneered at by one of those man-babies, I'd just tell him his vagina's showing and ask him to please go get me another beer.

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