What should I do!!!...I need your advice.

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  Posted by leann Sun May 17, 2009 3:28pm PDT

  i think if you are having problems with this you should wait if he is just a great guy as you think he is he will understand and if he dont than he is not the guy you want to be the first

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  Posted by KittyKat Sun May 17, 2009 3:48pm PDT

  Before you jump into bed with him have a serious talk with him to make sure he knows this. You are not just a one night stand some guys tend to think that way about sex. I'm not saying all guys are like that but some women give their heart out to the guy that takes her virginity and the guy tends to break her heart well dont let it happen to you. If the serious talk scares him then obviously he wasnt the right guy to lose your virginity to. Its a sacred thing and when you lose it it should be with someone special that really cares/loves you for who you are and not your body. Use protection.

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  Posted by Llort Sun May 17, 2009 8:23pm PDT

  I am more then sure that you will give him your virginity because he will threaten to break up with you. After that it will be a continuous cycle of you having sex with men in a desperate attempt to hold on to a boyfriend for several years. Then finally you will find some guy who is going to take your damaged goods and stay with you. Happy freaking ending.

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  Posted by First o Sun May 17, 2009 10:02pm PDT

  THEN YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO YOUR GUT FEELING.IF WE ALREADY FEEL WRONG...ABOUT ANYTHING CHANCES ARE WE ARE RIGHT.SO WHY DO IT BECAUSE OF THIS "LOVE"/IF IT WHERE THE RIGHT KIND OF "LOVE" WE WOULD NOT BE DISCUSSING THIS,RIGHT! DOING THIS FOR WRONG REASONS IS NOT WORTH IT,IF HE LOVES U. LIKE U LOVE HIM.....THE WAY U SAY U DO,THEN HE WOULD NOT BREAK YOUR BELIEF .GOOD LUCK.IF HE IS HORNY THEN ITS HIS PROBLEM NOT URS...BE WISE .

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  Posted by *devotion72 Mon May 18, 2009 6:07am PDT

  If he loves you...then he can wait!

  Your first is something you never forget; and most of all how do you know you two will last longer than you think. Does he trully love you and if he does then I think you should wait

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  Posted by another hockey fan Mon May 18, 2009 6:42am PDT

  You already answered your own question. You have doubts, even though you said you love him (and that's wonderful that you do) but you clearly are not ready yet and you REALLY, REALLY, REALLY do not want to regret it!! Once you have sex, you cannot take it back and something that I'm certain you are hoping will bring you two closer together, may end up breaking you apart because it was too soon for you. Wait until those doubts are gone whether it be until your wedding night or sooner. :-)

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  Posted by lusia Tue May 19, 2009 11:49pm PDT

  give your virginity to the one who deserves it~~~!

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  Posted by Shawn S Thu May 21, 2009 5:21am PDT

  Do Wuts Rite For You

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  Posted by lou lou Tue May 26, 2009 12:07pm PDT

  weel i have the same problem as u i love thz guy and i kinda gave it away to hima nd i dont know wat i was thinkiing me and him talked about it 4 a few months. i dont know wat was going through my head i regret it so do wat u think is right dont make the same dum mistake i did

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  Posted by petpet Wed May 27, 2009 3:43am PDT

  Genuine love waits. You are luck to be a virgin. Don't just loose it to smeone who deserves it not. Take your time. That is the best gift you can give to the man of your life so be careful with him and yourself. From your writing, its you who started the whole conversation which means you are more curious about having sex maybe from what you hear from other people especially girls. You should know that most of the girls lost to people they won't even like to remember in their life and it hurts them bcoz you can never forget about it. They may be knowing about you and are jelous and would like you to follow suit. Be yourself and don't follow your instincts, follow your heart. Let him understand that you have a special gift for the man of your life so that if he is the one, he can/will wait. Good luck.

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